Debbie Stamegna

Debbie Stamegna obituary

Debbie Stamegna

Debbie Stamegna Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Gately Funeral Home - Melrose on Jul. 10, 2025.

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It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Debbie Stamegna, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, who left this world peacefully, surrounded by her loved ones on July 8th, 2025.

Margaret was the devoted wife to Joseph Stamegna , and the proud mother and mother in law to Joseph Stamegna Jr, Shannon Stamegna, Bonnie Stamegna, Lauren Fielding, and the late Richard Fielding. She was a cherished grandmother to Tyler, Colin, Bryana, and Joseph III, all of whose lives were brightened by her boundless love, warmth, and unwavering support.

Margaret was born into a large family to the late Jean Wirtanen, and was a caring sister and sister in law to Tom and Lucille Gunn, Pam and Tim Daye, Nancy Ruggiero, Richard and Stephanie Wirtanen, and the late John "Jackie" Wirtanen, all with whom she shared countless memories, laughter, and the unbreakable bonds of family. Her life was a beautiful example of kindness, generosity, and joy. A life dedicated to caring for others and spreading warmth wherever she went.

To know Debbie was to know a heart full of compassion. She was the person who always remembered the small things, who offered a helping hand without hesitation and who made everyone feel seen, heard, and loved. Her family was the center of her world and she filled their lives with happiness, comfort, and unconditional love. Her legacy of kindness and joyful living will remain forever in the hearts of them and all who were blessed to know her.

Visiting Hours will be held at the Gately Funeral Home, 79 W. Foster St., Melrose, on Tuesday, July 15, 2025 from 4:00-7:00pm. A Funeral Mass will be held at 10:00am on Wednesday, July 16, 2025 at St. Mary's Church, 4 Herbert St., Melrose. Interment to follow the mass at Wyoming Cemetery, 205 Sylvan St., Melrose.

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