Derek Deo

Derek Deo, age 55, passed away peacefully, surrounded by the love of a family and community that meant everything to him. He lived a life defined by warmth, connection, and an extraordinary ability to make everyone he met feel seen.

Derek was the beloved son of Judith and late Dominick Deo. He is survived by his devoted mother; his loving sisters, Suzan and Kimberley; his brothers-in-law Scott and Matthew; his cherished nieces, Brooke and Ashley; his nephews, Dylan and Brayden; and many cousins and extended family members whom he truly adored.

Derek graduated from Arthur L Johnson Regional High School in Clark in 1993. After graduation, he transitioned to Inroads to Opportunities in Roselle, where he spent many happy and fulfilling years working alongside close friends he formed lasting bonds with. Those friendships were a source of great pride and joy in his life.

An accomplished and dedicated Scout, Derek was a Cub Scout and Boy Scout, which reflected his perseverance, commitment, and positive spirit. He was also deeply involved in the Special Olympics for many years, participating in swimming, basketball, bowling, and much more - activities that brought him both confidence and camaraderie.

Derek treasured time spent with his family, especially summers in Long Beach Island, where he loved playing miniature golf, relaxing on the beach, and simply being together with family. He especially enjoyed shopping trips with his mom, where his favorite part was not the shopping itself, but the people - chatting with store employees, greeting passersby, and making connections wherever he went.

Above all else, Derek loved people. He had a remarkable gift for engagement, kindness, and genuine interest in everyone he met. His smile, conversations, and open heart left a lasting impression on countless lives.

Derek will be remembered for his joy, his friendships, his devotion to family, and the love he so freely gave. His legacy lives on in the many hearts he touched and the happiness he shared every day of his life.

Visitation for close friends and family will be held on Monday, February 9th, 2026 at 9:30 a.m. at Fanwood Memorial Funeral Home, 155 South Avenue, Fanwood NJ. A Mass will be celebrated following the visitation at 11:00 a.m. at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, 1571 Martine Avenue, Scotch Plains NJ. Entombment will follow at Fairview Cemetery in Westfield.