Diana Thayer Obituary
Passed away peacefully on December 3, 2025, at the age of 72.
She is predeceased by her mother, Angela Farinella, and her daughter, Deanna Thayer. She is survived by her devoted partner, Erwin Mageary; her children, Terry (Kristi) Thayer, Brad (Janette) Thayer, and Chivonne (Samuel) Cabrera; and her beloved grandchildren, Samuel Cabrera III, Luke Cabrera, Jace Cabrera, Ian Thayer, Noah Thayer, Kylie Thayer, Mariella DisPasquale, Madison Callaghan, Makensley Callaghan, and Maddox Callaghan. She also leaves behind her sisters, Angela Hughes and Linda Schweigert, along with extended family members and friends who will dearly miss her.
Diana had a true gift for cleaning and took immense pride in having a perfectly kept home. Those who knew her well knew better than to leave a cup behind or to toss trash in the garbage. Her spotless house was part of her legacy. She also cherished her beloved dogs, Sadie and Bitsie, who brought her endless joy and companionship. Diana found her greatest joy with time spent with her family, making memories that will be cherished forever.
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