Add a Memory
Send Flowers
Make a Donation
Donna Lynn Wilder, age 46, passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by her loving family on Friday, September 12, 2025. She was born in Middlesboro, KY, on August 17, 1979, to Alma Upton and the late Don Upton.
Donna loved spending time with her family, which recently grew to include her first granddaughter, Anias. She also enjoyed the company of her beloved fur baby, Charlie.
In addition to her father, Donna was preceded in death by her grandmother, Anna Mae Vanover; father-in-law, Carlos Wayne Wilder, Sr.; mother-in-law, Edna Mae Wilder and aunt, Rose Daniels.
Left to cherish her memory are her husband of 26 years, Carlos Wilder; sons, Chris (Donna) Upton and Jimmy Wilder (James McClain); daughter, Kasie Wilder (Josh Szemak); granddaughter, Anias Upton; mother, Alma Upton; and brothers, Donald (Samantha) Upton and Tommy Upton (Candice Saylor); and beloved close friends, Chris and Heather Ables, as well as a host of nieces, nephews, other family and friends.
The family of Donna Wilder will receive friends on Tuesday, September 16, 2025, from 11:00 a.m. until 1:00 p.m. at the Cawood Funeral Home Chapel, Middlesboro, KY. Funeral services will immediately follow at 1:00 p.m. with Rev. Terry Warwick presiding.
At the conclusion of the funeral service, family and friends will travel in procession to Upton Wilder Cemetery, Middlesboro, KY, where graveside services will be held.
Pallbearers will be Chris Upton, Jimmy Wilder, Harold Wilder, Chris Ables, Jeffery Lankford, and Josh Szemak.
Online register book and condolences are available at www.cawoodfh.com.
All arrangements for Donna Lynn Wilder are under the care of Cawood Funeral Home, Middlesboro, KY.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
112 South 21st Street, Middlesboro, KY 40965
Memories and condolences can be left on the obituary at the funeral home website.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read moreWhat kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read moreWe'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreIf you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read moreLegacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreThey're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreYou may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read moreThese free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read moreSome basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more