Douglas Van Zee

Douglas Arvin Van Zee, a beloved husband, father, brother, and friend, passed away on July 24, 2025, in Des Moines, Iowa, at the age of 60. Born on July 15, 1965, in Cedar Falls, Iowa, Douglas lived a life characterized by compassion, adventure, and dedication to family and community. For 25 years, he dedicated himself as an insurance representative at different insurance companies ending with Humana, where he was known not just for his work ethic but also for the warmth and kindness he extended to colleagues and clients alike. He pursued his education at Cary High School in North Carolina, graduating with the class of 1984, and later studied Sociology with a minor in religious studies, nurturing a deep desire to become a full-time missionary. Douglas's personality shone through in all aspects of his life. He was fun-loving, adventurous, and possessed patience that could only be described as saintly. His love for his children and wife, Malissa Carole Van Zee, was boundless, and he was always willing to make sacrifices for their happiness. Known for his selflessness and humility, he consistently put others' needs before his own and worked tirelessly to support his family. He leaves behind a legacy of treasured memories shared with his family, including special gatherings at Hidden Acres, memorable visits to Living History Farms, and a fun-filled reunion trip to North Carolina in 2009, where the whole family enjoyed time together in a pickup truck. A cherished vacation in Austin, Texas, remains close to the hearts of his children, who remember their cave hunting adventures as a highlight of their childhood. Douglas was a devout member of his community, actively volunteering with youth activities and church events, serving as a leader for both Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts. He contributed his time and care to organizations such as the Salvation Army and Door of Faith. Camping trips every summer were a cherished tradition for the Van Zee family, and he could often be found enjoying evenings watching the Hallmark Channel, soap operas, or cheering on Da Bears and the Cubs. His musical preferences spanned from Christian music to 80's Rock & N Roll, with Boston being one of his favorites. He is survived by his loving wife, Malissa Carole Van Zee; children, Mary Katherine Van Zee, Caleb Aaron Van Zee, Ashley Susanna Van Zee, and Christopher Antonie Van Zee; and siblings, Carol Ann (Hector) Martinez and Bradley Allen (Laura) Van Zee, along with a host of extended family and friends who will miss him dearly. A visitation will be held on August 9, 2025, at Hope+Elim in Des Moines, Iowa, starting at 10:00 AM, with a funeral service to follow at 11:00 AM until 12:00 PM. Douglas's life will be celebrated, honoring a man who gave so much to those around him and touched the lives of many with his generous spirit and loving heart.