Duane M. Stephens

Duane M. Stephens obituary, Minetto, NY

Duane M. Stephens

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Minetto United Methodist Church

2433 County Route 8, Oswego, NY 13126

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Duane Stephens Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Nelson Funeral Home - Oswego on Dec. 9, 2025.
Duane Mead Stephens, 92, of Minetto, passed away peacefully on December 5, 2025, with his loving family by his side.

Born in Hornell, NY, on September 11, 1933, he was the son of the late Sanford Mead and Mildred (Day) Stephens. He was a proud veteran, having served in the US Army.

Duane graduated from the Canisteo School District, where he spent most of his childhood. He earned his Bachelor's Degree at SUNY Brockport while working at Eastman Kodak in Rochester. He went on to earn his Master's Degree at SUNY Oswego while teaching in Remsen, NY. He had many other jobs, including Vice Principal at McGraw High School, Teacher at Greenhaven and Auburn Correctional Facilities, Superintendent at South Lansing School for Girls, and Maintenance at Auburn Memorial Hospital. Duane would also pick up part-time jobs, including Night Manager at Big M, delivering the Sunday Paper, and he also had a Snowplow Route in the winter.

Duane loved the outdoors and enjoyed many activities, including camping, boating, waterskiing, snowmobiling and vacationing with his family and close friends. He always found projects to keep him busy which included carpentry and yardwork. He was a tour guide for the H. Lee White Marine Museum on the LT-5 Tug Boat. He enjoyed singing in the Church choir and playing the Baritone in the New Horizons Band.

Duane is survived by the love of his life of 70 years, Marilyn (Cole) Stephens, and children, Alan (Kris) Stephens, Cheryl (the late Edward) Hotchkiss, and Yvonne Stephens (Tracy). He was a proud and loving grandfather to Rebecca (Jonathan), Kelly (Joseph), Jake (Courtney), Jennifer (Brian) and Nicole (Josh), along with 8 great-grandchildren. Duane is also survived by 8 nieces and 4 nephews.

In addition to his parents, Duane was predeceased by his sister Julanne S. Willis and many brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law.

He will be remembered for his gentle guidance, his love for the outdoors, and the deep values he instilled in those around him. His legacy lives on in the family he cherished and the lives he touched.

Friends and family are invited to call on Saturday, December 13, 2025, from 11:00 - 1:00 at Minetto United Methodist Church, 2433 County Rte 8, Oswego, with a service to follow at 1:00 pm. Burial will be held in the spring at Mt. Adnah Cemetery. Arrangements are under the caring guidance of Nelson Funeral Home.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be given to the United Methodist Church, Minetto, NY, in memory of Duane M. Stephens.

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Upcoming Events

Dec

13

Visitation

11:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m.

Minetto United Methodist Church

2433 County Route 8, Oswego, NY 13126

Send Flowers

Dec

13

Funeral service

1:00 p.m.

Minetto United Methodist Church

2433 County Route 8, Oswego, NY 13126

Send Flowers

Services provided by

Nelson Funeral Home - Oswego

Only 2 days left for delivery to next service.