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Elizabeth A. "Bette" Aitoro, 95, died at her home in Norwalk on July 17, 2025, with her family by her side. Born in Norwalk, the daughter of the late Euclid and Mary (Smith) Bourguignon, she was the wife of the late Vincent Aitoro. She was also predeceased by her sister, Joan Barbera.
Bette loved to travel with her husband around the world, taking beautiful trips to Europe. Aruba was very special to her and she spent a few weeks there every year until Covid. Bette loved planning the Norwalk High School class of 1948 reunions. She enjoyed watching her family grow.
She is survived by three children, Jane Wadanoli and her husband, David, Vincent J. Aitoro and his wife, Regina, and Tony Aitoro and his wife, Liz; five loving grandchildren, Eric and wife, Jessica, Marc, Caroline, A.J. and wife, Darcy, and Michael and wife, Paulina; and three cherished great-grandchildren, Jack, Ava and Tex.
Her family will receive friends on Wednesday, July 23, from 5-7PM at the Magner Funeral Home, 12 Mott Avenue, Norwalk. Her Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, 10AM at St. Thomas the Apostle Church, 203 East Ave., Norwalk, with burial to follow at St. John Cemetery.
Memorial donations may be made to the Caron Foundation and Lockwood Mathew Museum.
For direction or online guestbook, please visit: www.Magnerfuneralhome.com .
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Judith G
July 24, 2025
My deepest condolences to Mr. Tony, my heart is saddened by the passing of my Bettes. May God grant you and your family peace and strength in your hearts.
Peter Chieco
July 23, 2025
Dear Aitoro Family: Please accept our deepest sympathies. We were lucky enough to have met Elizabeth and know that you will be comforted by the great memories you created with her. With condolences, Peter, Vin, Kristin, Antonio, and team.
doug hartmuss
July 22, 2025
tony and family so very sorry about your i remember her well she was a great lady my heart and prayers go out to you ,jane and vinnie again im so sorry
Norman Riczu
July 22, 2025
Tony, I am sorry to hear about your mom. A beautiful woman. Prayers to you and your family.
Norman and Cindy Buzaid
July 21, 2025
Tony Elizabeth and family,
Our deepest condolences on the loss of your mother. Sending love and prayers to you and your family during this tough time.
judi most-roseff
July 21, 2025
Dear Tony and Family,
So sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. Take comfort that she is in a better place, no pain and no suffering.
Lisa blair
July 20, 2025
Aunt Bette, Rest in Paradise now with Uncle Vinnie! You are my Godmother and I have lots of memories with you. Growing up at my awkward age 12-13 having a sleep over at your house at oak hill. You took me to get my hair straightened before I liked curly hair. You set me up with ingredients to bake cookies as you knew I loved baking. I enjoyed those times. And no matter what June you traveled with Uncle Vinnie, you never forgot my birthday. It meant a lot especially after losing my dad, Carmen. And in the past 6 years I made several trips from CA and spent time with you and a sleep overs at both beautiful homes on Surf in Westport and in East Norwalk. We enjoyed our breakfasts together. You shared lots of memories growing up and funny stories too. I´m grateful for these times and won´t forget. RIP. Oxoxox
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