Elizabeth Destasio

Elizabeth DeStasio (1944–2024)

Beloved Mother, Grandmother, and Friend

Elizabeth DeStasio of Pelham, New York, passed away peacefully on November 17, 2024. Born in July 1944 in New Rochelle, New York, to Henry and Diana Pinto, Elizabeth was the youngest of three children. She grew up in New Rochelle and attended St. Gabrielle Catholic High School.

In 1963, Elizabeth married Joseph DeStasio, the love of her life. Together, they settled in Pelham, where they raised five sons and built a warm and loving family. 

Elizabeth was a dedicated and cherished member of her community. She worked as a crossing guard in Pelham for many years and volunteered at local election polling stations. Known for her vibrant spirit and generous heart, Elizabeth enjoyed bowling, cooking, and baking—pastimes she shared with family and friends. 

Elizabeth will be remembered for her  kindness, honesty, and compassion. Her love touched the lives of all who knew her. Above all, she was devoted to her family, especially her five children and seven grandchildren, who were the lights of her life.

She is survived by her five sons: Joseph (Mary) DeStasio, Richard (Rachel) DeStasio, Robert (Suzanne) DeStasio, Michael DeStasio, and Ralph DeStasio; and her seven grandchildren: Richard Jr., Matthew, Michael, Emily, Joseph, Andrew, and Ana. She is also survived by many beloved nieces and nephews. Elizabeth was predeceased by her husband, Joseph; her parents; and her siblings, John Cerra and Joan Tracey.

A Funeral Mass will be held in her honor at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church, 575 Fowler Avenue, Pelham Manor, NY 10803. Interment will be private.

For more information or to leave a condolence, please visit www.pelhamfuneral.com.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Elizabeth's memory can be made to Cabrini of Westchester at www.cabrini-eldercare.org/donate.

Elizabeth’s warmth, wisdom, and grace will remain forever in the hearts of those who were fortunate to know her.