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Elizabeth "Beth" Porter
Elizabeth "Beth" Porter
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This obituary was originally published in the Decatur Herald & Review.
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Denise Smith
December 17, 2024
Beth - I got a picture from Slidell LA a bit ago - 40 car pile up in dense fog. My mind suddenly was back in Mississippi and that foggy night that forever changed our lives. I still can´t drive in the fog and never will - my tears are streaming down my face as I type this - I think of you often and just realizing Reid would be 16 sure makes me feel old. I miss you and miss the fact we didn´t get to see Reid grow up. Love you forever!!!
Denise Stearns
February 25, 2009
Beth -
It was 1 year ago that your mom and I were standing beside you as you took your last breath and you and Reid left us. At times it seems like yesterday - my tears still flow and I still reach for the phone to share something with you. Over the year I have learned so much more about you and the way you have touched so many people in your short years. Everyone talks about your wonderful smile - your laughter - and how caring you were - you touched so many people and continue to touch us. I went by Lowe's today and left a dozen pink roses for you and a small blue bunny for Reid - the 2 Redbuds are beginning to bud and the roses bushes are blooming. As I was leaving Tina came up to me and hugged me - she said it is still hard for her and there is a memory board by the office where you worked. I miss you and think of you everyday - I know you are looking down on us and I know you feel our grief - give Reid a kiss for me until the day that I can hold him and hug you. A couple of weeks ago I have to drive to a meeting and it was a foggy day - like the night of the wreck - I have my first panic attack - I had to come back home and I spent the rest of the day curled up and refused to look out side -the fog triggered the feelings and hurt of that night - I miss you and am so thankful that I have the honor of sharing time with you - Love, Denise
Aimee Dunn
February 25, 2009
Beth,
I was one year ago today that you and your precious son that you had longed for left us to go be with your Eternal Father. Sometimes it feels like only yesterday to me-other times it feels like an eternity. I think about you at least once a day every day, but today my thoughts are consumed by you and only you and the loss that we have all felt over this last year. While we all know that you and Reid are safe, happy, and sheltered from our sometimes cruel world, it is still so hard to accept sometimes. Some of us have talked; there are still so many times that we feel your presence. The timing of things and the way things happen-we know it is you working so that we do not forget about you, which would be impossible.
Beth, I will never forget the times that we had together and how you were always so supportive of the decisions I made. You were truly a remarkable friend and person, and I miss you every minute of every day. I look forward to the day when I can see you and hold that precious boy you are so proud of! Love to you always.
Phyllis Bennett
February 23, 2009
It was a year ago today Shelia called me and told me of your accident. She had just moved to Florida and I could hear in her voice how she wanted to be here. I remember speaking with your mother at the hospital and she gave us little hope. I remember asking about Reid and your mom had told me he had already passed. You and I became pregnant together after coming home from our week in Florida from ZMTP. I remember telling everyone because I was so excited but you didn't because of your loss of a child before. Soon after I lost my baby and you told me about Reid. You cried and cried with me because you knew what I was going through, yet you were so happy that your pregnancy was going well, as you should be. Beth, I will never forget the times we spent together, with both of our husbands gone out of town working at times, we leaned on each other for support. I still have your number in my cell phone because I can't bear to delete it. I am just sad that we only became close friends the last 6 months I'd so preceeding your death. But it was a great 6 months! I talk about you often with Margaret, we start off crying and end up laughing at the great times we shared with you. You were a special woman. Thank you for the friend you were to me. I will never forget you.
Missing You
Phyllis Bennett
Lowe's of Gulfport
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Margaret Chapman
February 23, 2009
As the year has passed, there has been many times that I have thought of Beth. Sometimes they are sad, like driving down the road of the accident. Sometimes they are happy, like when I go to McAllisters, remembering going to lunch there and of course, always loving their tea. Sometimes when I am in the training room of my office, I remember her and Phyllis as they were completing their Admin training with Lowe's. They were having fun, cutting up but learning so much at the time. Beth's laughter and smile were infectious. I read the notes from her parents, and my heart truly goes out to you. Losing loved ones is so difficult to understand and to simply go on and function. My prayers are still with you and I know God is with you, even though you may feel alone. Beth is watching us and she is smiling down on us. She is not alone because she has Reid.
Jackie Clapp Joines
February 21, 2009
Beth, we think about you often as our two families lost young mothers at the same time. We are never prepared, but take comfort in knowing that your faith in God has delivered you to a place where his love and care are abundant. We keep your loved ones close in prayer and hope that you and Laura are laughing and sharing stories about your lives so close here on earth. You may be physically gone from us, but you will never ever be forgotten.
Mary Hawkins
February 19, 2009
Dear Beth:
Only we realize what a precious one of a kind daughter you were. You had such a determined, but sensitive spirit wanting to succeed in life. Growing up, you were such a delight to watch as you matured into the strong proud woman you became. There was this straightforwardness in how you led your life, rejoicing in your successes, yet being accountable for your failures. There was also this spontaneity that was such a part of you. Your sense of humor was legendary. We have heard countless stories from your friends of that uncanny sense of humor which was yours alone - one almost magical and often unforgettable.
Your life had its highs and lows but appeared to be moving forward in such a positive way expecting the child you and Josh had yearned for, your heart bursting with the love only a mother knows and understands. The morning after your deaths on entering Reid's room, your presence still lingered almost as if you had just stepped out - a room filled with a mother's overwhelming love for her son.
None of us who loved you unconditionally and without pretense had ever paused to consider what life would be without you. We know now how much you were an integral part of our lives, and the depth of your passing continues to deepen for those of us who will always carry a memory of you in our hearts - like a locket on a chain which we will treasure and hold onto as the years go by.
Simply, there is no replacement for a daughter such as you.
From Mom and Dad - whom you were taken from far too early. You will not be forgotten. We love you.
marcia futch
February 14, 2009
Joshua's Birthday this year without you and Reid was very empty Beth. It just seems like weeks ago we were having his 30th birthday. You really brought love and joy to all of us. So short of time we had to share with you. Wesley, his girlfriend, Gene and I was with him this year. And everywhere I looked around you and Reid were there also. He misses the both of you so much. The house is as it was, your touches everywhere. You know the love we have for the both of you always will Beth. I could see it in his eyes the sadness and empty space, things that remind him of you and his son. The Hawkins Family will be there close to you and
Reid to visit you, talk to you, bring you beautiful flowers. Sharing their hearts with you and tears from missing you both. As for Joshua a part of his heart died with his loved ones. We will Love him for you Beth and your memory will forever be with us. Love Marcia
Megan Schweitzer
February 7, 2009
Beth, It was exactly a year ago that you had Josh's 30th birthday party. You called me that day freaking out because you were at work (of course) and you did not know how you were going to pick up the cake before they closed. We solved the problem and then you were onto all of the food that you and Denise were preparing for the party. There were a lot of friends there to celebrate not only Josh's birthday but also the upcoming birth of little Reid. All of the finishing touches had been done in the nursery and it looked awesome, everyone was just waiting. I remember that it was a really happy time and everything seemed to be coming together perfectly. It was just a couple weeks later when everything changed forever.
Avery still asks about you a lot. I tell her that you are in heaven but I am pretty sure that she does not fully comprehend. I know that she would have been crazy about Reid, she loves babies. He would be at the age now where they would be having a ton of fun together and someday they will.
I miss you so much. Mother Mary gave me one of your old vball shirts from high school that I signed( sub 6) and I am going to treasure that. I know that you and Reid are at peace and I am thankful for that. I just still wish that it did not have to be this way. I love you.
Mary Hawkins
February 5, 2009
Beth,
Have been thinking of you more than ever since January 17 (a year ago to date of your 20 week sonogram),the day when many of us started to relax and believe that we were going to indeed hold Johnathan Reid Porter in our arms. The fax you sent to us that day said "See the gift God has given us. We are doing fine". Now, we know you and your baby are with God in heaven.
Last year around this time, I had this huge list of things to do to get your dad ready to stay with you. He was practicing recipes. I was getting his clothes ready, medicines together, buying groceries to fill the freezer and the cupboards, so you didn't have to go the grocery store any more than absolutely necessary. The Friday evening we started down to Mississippi, I had cramed everything I could into the car. There were more baby clothes and the afghan which June had crocheted for you - yes, the blanket which covers you and your baby now.
I just sent Josh something for his birthday. I know this day will hold many memories for him as well as for the one who were fortunate enough to be there that night.
As the anniversary of your death is rapidly approaching, I urge anyone who still checks your Guest Book and wants to express themselves to do so.
Mom
Denise Stearns
October 18, 2008
Beth - this has been a bitter - sweet month - John and Sara's wedding was very nice - but you should have been there - there were two rose buds at the alter - one for you and one for Reid - but it was not the same. Your birthday was this week - no celebration - just memories and tears. The days have helped, but there are so many things that remind me of you and then the tears start again. I still reach for the phone to share something with you - your phone number is still there - but you are not going to answer. I miss you!
Love, Denise
marcia futch
June 15, 2008
Today is Fathers Day Beth and I can't help to dream about you, Ried and Josh today he would be cooing at you and Josh and you would be so happy. God how I miss you. I'm also thinking about your Dad how he must be so sad and still missing you so much. Every day you are with me and you always will be I still find myself wanting to call you up and I do on your cell phone to hear your voice.I love you and Reid and miss you so much it makes me sick with pain but Your Mom and Dad and John surely must struggle every day without you what a blessing you have been to us Love Marcia
Denise Stearns
June 13, 2008
Beth - There is such a void in my life without you - there is not a day that goes by that I do not think of you, or remember something we did together, or something you said. I remember your smile and miss seeing it. I miss the phone calls and emails.
You are never far from my thoughts and will always be in my heart. I miss you!
Shelley Vargas
May 23, 2008
This message is for Beth's Mom. My name is Shelley and I worked with Beth at Home Depot Key West. I'd like to think that we were good friends. I notice that you update this book expressing your feelings and it makes me feel so much sorrow for you. Beth called me about a week before the accident and left a message on my voicemail that I listen to whenever I check my messages. Please email me your cell phone number if you would like for me to forward the voicemail. Your in my thoughts.
Marcia Futch
May 6, 2008
Beth tomarrow you and my son josh would have been married 5yrs and our little Reid would have been with us. Not a day goes by that you aren't with me my loved ones.I know many other ones will think of you on this day and miss you both so much. Its been hard for we love you so much and miss you very much. I miss your calls and that laugh my yankie girl. So special you were and are.Hold our little one tight til we meet you once again. Love Marcia
Denise Stearns
April 25, 2008
Beth -
2 months ago tonight, about this time, your Mom and I were holding your hands as you left us. If feels like it was only last night. I know you are in a better place and you and Reid are safe - but I still struggle with understanding why - why you and Reid, why now, why the way you had to die. I know God is the only one with those answers, but I still ask.
I think of you often every day - I see frogs every where I shop - and that brings me to tears. Reid would have loved the frog theme you had selected for him.
I love you and miss you!
Corinne Ishum
April 23, 2008
Beth-
I think about you almost every day. In my algebra class the other day we were working on a few word problems and one of them had a character whose name was Beth and I almost started crying right there sitting in my seat. You and I never really got a chance to become as close as friends as we could have but any and every time that we were together or that you invited us over to you house, you were always a great joy to be around.
I am just at 27 weeks in my pregnancy and I wish so often that I had you here to help me with some of my questions. I’m sure you already know this as you are watching over us but we are having a little girl. We are going to name her Liberty-ann and call her Libby. Once we had found out that you and little Reid had passed away Robert and I had talked that if we had a little boy that we were going to give him the middle name Reid, in honor of you, Josh and baby Reid. We were a little upset to find out it was a girl but she is still a blessing to us and we would never trade her.
Robert and Josh have been hanging out a lot since your accident. I am glad that Josh has Robert to keep him busy, and actually that Robert has Josh to keep him busy too. When your accident first happened and Josh would see me, I would sometimes feel that he would have a hard time looking at me because I had just started to show, and I so badly just wanted to hug him and tell him it was okay to be “mad” at me for reminding him of you. Please continue watching over Josh and help him through this. I know you were taken away from us for a reason and hopefully we will be able to find out what that reason is soon than later.
We love you and miss you very much!
Marcia Futch
April 20, 2008
I guess this is our way of talking to Beth and Reid.God only knows how our hearts are crushed into the longing we have to see them and hold them in our arms.But we can't and I'm mad my anger has taken over my body, to have someone so precious taken from us isn't fair, but I've heard things happen for a reason but I can't imagine to this day what this one was. Mary, Dewey, and John my heart cries out with yours with saddness, anger, and loss.I pray that each day will get better but time will help us get through this tradgedy. I am numb as I know you are I also call her cell phone to here her voice. Love Marcia p.s.I shared a few photos
I just loved you so much my Beffie!
April 17, 2008
My son and Beth lived and loved and created their little Reid in love. Love is not a big enough word for our Beth and Reid Love Marcia
April 17, 2008
Denise Stearns
April 14, 2008
It is hard to believe it has been 7 weeks since Beth and Reid left us. I often pick up the phone to call and share something with Beth, only to feel like a ton of bricks hit me, she is not here for me to share anything with. The loss hits me at different times and over different things - this weekend it was the green tomatoes at the store - Beth and I loved fried green tomatoes - I opened a drawer in my desk and the baby shower invitations were staring at me - all addressed with stamps - shoved in the drawer after Beth died. I miss her every minute of everyday - time has not changed that. I have her photos around the house, but I would much rather have her here, to hear her voice again.
Beth - I miss you so much! I know you and Reid are togther and are watching over us. I am so lucky to have had you in my life - you will always be part of me. I will never forget the times we shared. I am helping Josh, but there are times I do not know what to say to him. He missed you and Reid every minute of everyday. I love you and miss you.
Mary Hawkins
April 13, 2008
Beth,
You are in our thoughts this weekend. Your dad is so sad right now, spending too much time alone. Keep an eye on him. Life is going on as it must, but just when you least expect it something occurs which reinforces what we have lost. Yesterday at church a young woman who resembled you holding a baby who was probably a month or so old, a school bus stopping to drop off a little boy from school with a mom and little sister waiting at the end of the driveway, just the simple things in life that people take for granted.
Last fall, I had had a feeling that 2008 was not going to be a good year, but I kept thinking how can this be when Beth and Josh are going to be parents to a little boy named Johnathan Reid. Little did I know what we would lose in 2008.
We miss you Beth and Johnathan Reid. We pray for you every day.
Mary Hawkins
March 30, 2008
Dear Beth:
Here it is another Sunday. John, Sara, your dad, and I were talking about you last night. There are so many things we are still discovering about those last 24-48 hours of your life. Yes, nothing really is all that important now that you and Johnathan are gone, but you and Johnathan Reid are in our thoughts still every waking moment of the day. So many things we wished we would have said or done. I have been looking at some of the cards you sent to us over the years, especially the ones from the college era. We couldn't really remember why you called your dad "tammy", but I have the envelope addressed to "Tammy".
We're worried about Dale. He still has the cough, not very bad, but he is losing weight and yesterday he peed three times in the house - perhaps loss of bladder control. The last time I saw you we had discussed that the Schnauzers sometimes have that trouble. I sense, however, that something more serious is going on - I have a feeling you may have Dale with you in heaven soon. Your dad will be devastated - please watch over your dad, he loved you so. Have been looking on the Internet and have Aimee and Sara keeping their eyes/ears open for a puppy - no nothing will replace Dale, but you dad needs a reason to go on.
John is still trying to reconcile your death. He still thinks it should have been him that died. He has one of your pictures with him at work, and he is talking to someone to help him. He and Sarah will be getting married in about six months, and they have decided to have a dessert reception - what a wonderful tasty idea!! Of course, when I think of desserts I think of Cold Stone. Remeber when you and Josh were in North Carolina going to Wilmington or when we met up with Aimee and Brian in Miami - what an unforgettablel taste - sweet cream and chocolate with a brownie, almonds - WOW!!. Please watch over John, he loved you so.
Your dad and Sam have been tending to the cemetery. I will be making a trip there today - another cold, rainy, gloomy day. Josh and I have been discussing Johnathan Reid's and your stone.
Grandpa and Grandma aren't doing very well. Don't know if Grandpa has had a mild stroke or if it is just the aftermath of losing you and Johnathan Reid. He was so excited about being a great-grandfather, he told me once "everyone else has one and now it is my turn." I have been noticing a change in Grandma as well - more forgetful, repeating herself 3-4 times in a 10-15 minute time span, getting things mixed up. Please watch over them.
Josh is struggling. I believe he will get to stay in Gulfport as long as he follows certain guidelines. I so wish I was closer to him, just to give him a hug, a swift kick in the backside, etc. Still remember him finding a pair of my panties in his clothes and putting them on his head and swinging them in the air like they were the sail for a sailboat. Although I have not talked to him since yesterday a.m., I think he and Denise are on the way to Grandma Porter's funeral. Please watch over them.
Denise and Bryan have been truly godsends. I cannot imagine how we would have gotten through the loss of you without them in our lives. They mourn for you as if they had known you forever. When Joe called me from the accident scene, I told him I was in Illinois and 12 hours away, but I knew someone who would drop everything and be there for you. I am so thankful that you had someone close at all times. They were such a comfort to your Dad at the hospital. They love you as if you were their daughter - please watch over them.
Beth, I feel you are so close - sometimes as if you have your hand on my right shoulder or standing behind me with a hand on each shoulder. Losing you and the baby is such an inconceivable thing to happen. We worried so about Josh - we thought he was the one in "harms way." I was going to give Father Skeleton money again to say masses to keep Josh safe like I did on his last deployment - who would have thought your passing would happen. Life will go on without you and Johnathan Reid in it, but my life is never, never going to be the same. This past Thursday morning, I was really thinking how Johnathan Reid would have looked as a newborn, a child with chubby little hands resting on your shoulder or his hands patting your back as you burped or comforted him in your arms. Who knows maybe he would have come or called me or your dad when you and Josh had told him "no". I believe he would have been tall - long arms and legs - blond hair like his Dad and blue eyes - I think the blue in your eyes. When he was doing something he shouldn't, he would have had the look in his eyes and smile, like the last picture of you sitting at Josh's birthday. I keep picturing him with you and Josh - Josh throwing him up in the air or playing airplane with him. I see him on a small motorcycle or scooter at the Hawk's Nest and the farm. His blond hair flying, laughing in happiness at life itself. Yes, this is just a dream. He was with you on earth and he is with you now.
We love you Beth and Johnathan Reid Porter. Watch over us and guide us when we stumble.
Mary Hawkins
March 24, 2008
Last night around 11:15-11:30 p.m., I remembered the call I received a month ago from Joe the man who stopped to help you. That night as I talked to Joe I heard your voice in the background, but wish I had just spoke just a few words with you never dreaming that you would not survive the car crash. Your Dad and I miss you terribly. This past Saturday was the date I had penciled in weeks ago - you would have been 30 weeks pregnant and would probably have given birth to our first grandchild about then. When I went into the nursery, I could see you were just waiting on Reid's birth - the room decorated with such love and care, the crib with his name on it, the dressing table all prepared, the closet and drawers already filling with clothes for your son. As I look out my window today, I have such an empty hollow feeling inside. Once in a while when I want to hear your voice, I still call your cell phone or I touch the coins you carried in your billfold - you see I now carry your purse which holds pieces of your life within. You were one of the classiest daughters a mother and father could have. You never met a stranger, had such a strong heart, gave 110% in everything you did during your life. You will never be forgotten, and we know someday we will see you and our grandchild.
Marcia Futch
March 11, 2008
my sweet Beffie I miss you so words can't define the hurt in my heart, my girl. And my little Reid I'll love you both always. Just to see how you touched peoples lives is heart warming, yes that SMILE will never be forgotten. I'm so grateful you shared your life with me and my family. No one will ever replace you and Little Reid. I know you hold your son in your arms and share that beautiful smile with him. I just wished it could be here with us we miss you so. The last time we spoke, was the last time we spoke, and I told you to pat Reid tell him I love him and that I loved you, never did I think it would be our last words but what better words to have said.Loving you both forever Marcia (Joshuas mom and Little Reids Grandma)
Denise Edwards
March 8, 2008
Beth and I became instant friends when we met in Key West and shared so much laughter together. She was a true friend who brought so much sunshine to our lives. I will never forget her sense of humor or kindness and every day she will be remembered and her life will be forever celebrated.
Josh, please know you are in our thoughts and we are here for you. Please never forget that.
Stefan, Denise and Aiden
Dianne (Conlin) Murphy
March 7, 2008
Dear Hawkins family and Mulcahey family: I just heard about your horrible loss. My heart breaks for all of you! I didn't know Beth, but knowing John D and Mary, and all the Hawkins and Mulcahey "kids", I'm sure she was a wonderful person. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Linda Quattlebaum
March 7, 2008
Josh...You don't know us but we feel we know you and Beth through your Mother. She has been doing our hair for more years than we can remember. Words just won't come to express the sorrow we feel for you at this time. You are in our thoughts and prayers as is your Mom. I know she is so proud of you and she is there for you. May the memories you have be a comfort to you, and may God give you the strength you need to come through this...In Our Thoughts and Prayers Always, Linda and Lou Quattlebaum
Teri Spiers
March 7, 2008
I had the opportunity to meet Beth while working with her at Home Depot. She had an electrifying smile and was a joy to be around. She will be missed. She made a difference in everything she did.
Aimee Dunn
March 6, 2008
I, too had the pleasure of growing up with Beth. I knew even from an early age what a special person she would grow to be. Beth had a magnetic personality-people were drawn to her. Once you met her you would never forget her. She was a wonderful friend to me throughout the years. She offered unconditional love and support, and I am so very thankful for her friendship. There has not been and will never be a day that goes by that I do not think of something she said or something she did and smile about it. She brought so much to those who knew her. I will remember her and Reid always. Josh, Mary, Dewey, & Douglas-Please know I am here for all of you if you need anything. I love you guys!
Lacey (Wallace) Apple
March 5, 2008
I'm so very sorry for your loss. Your family will be in my thoughts & prayers.
Jessica Spangler
March 4, 2008
Beth was a great person with such a passion for life. She always had a smile on her face. She will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends.
Robert and Corinne Ishum
March 4, 2008
Josh- We just wanted to let you know that you, Beth, and baby Reid are in our thoughts each and every day. I cannot even come up with the right words to try to comfort you in your time of need. Both of our families, along with us are praying for you and the rest of the family. Know that you are loved and we are all here to help you through these tough times.
The Carmans
March 3, 2008
We are so sorry for your loss.
Haley Quinn
March 3, 2008
I worked with Beth at the Lowe's in Gulfport, MS. She had such a great personality. She was always full of laughs and smiles. She will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with her and her family.
Thomas Moore
March 3, 2008
I will always remember Beth's smile and humor. My sympathies to Josh, and the rest of the family.
Phyllis Bennett
March 3, 2008
I have only known Beth since she came to Lowe's, but I spent a lot of time with her as we did our Management training together. God couldn't have given me a better partner to do my training with. We had so much in common from our love of dogs to our husbands both working out of town. Many of times we have comforted each other when they were both out of town for work. I know how much she deeply loved you, Josh. I will miss her so much. She has meant the world to me.
Chad Kissinger
March 3, 2008
I'm very sorry for sudden loss of your wife and child. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Megan Schweitzer
March 3, 2008
I had the pleasure of growing up with Beth in Illinois and she was more like a sister to me than a friend. God broke the mold when he made Beth, she was truly an original. I will always be comforted(and amused) by my memories of the times that we shared. I will love and remember Beth and Reid everday of my life. I will continue to pray for Josh and all of her family and friends. Josh, please remember that Chris and I are here for you if you need anything.
Dani Finley
March 3, 2008
Beth, We worked together in Decatur at Cat and we had some great time, I will miss your emails and that smile, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Keri Hales
March 3, 2008
You have my deepest sympathy in this time of mourning.
Belinda Breaux
March 3, 2008
It's hard to explain how people you never knew can touch you in such a way. My daughter is in Long Beach; her husband a Seabee...She has brought your family into our hearts.
We stand together in prayer with you all.
Robert Breaux family
Billy Bourgeois
March 2, 2008
Beth you will always be in my prayers. Josh if you need anything call me.
Mary Katherine (Kinate) Smith
March 2, 2008
To the members of the Hawkins/Porter family: I was a sorority sister of Beth's and was so sad to hear of her untimely death. She was a wonderful person who always brought a smile to my face. I will remember her fondly and keep your families in my prayers
Angela Segebart
March 2, 2008
Josh and family,
I do not know any of you, but we have mutual friends. I have been so touched by your tragedy and you have steadily been in my thoughts and prayers. May you all find peace in knowing that mother and son are at rest together and safe in the arms of the Lord.
Scott Albin
March 2, 2008
Dear Hawkins family, We are so sorry for your loss. All of you will remain in our prayers. God bless you and keep you strong. Sincerely, Scott,Michelle and Matthew Albin
Rob and Leslie (McCallister) Gordon
March 2, 2008
We were devistated to hear about the sudden tradgedy about beth and her son. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the whole Hawkins family may god bless you in the days to come.
Lane, Joyce, Michael & Amanda Blair
March 2, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you try to make sense of this senseless tragedy. Beth was a delightful person, and this world will be a sadder place without her in it. We recently were looking at old photographs and ran across one of her and Michael where they attended Homecoming dance together their Freshman year of high school. As always, Beth had a big smile on her face. We never saw her any other way. May God be with you.
LT.ROBERT THIBODEAUX GLADIUS PROTECTION
March 2, 2008
I ONLY KNEW HER BRIEFLY BUT THE TIME I WAS AROUND HER SHE WAS ALMOST ALWAYS HAPPY, WE ALL HAVE BAD DAYS BUT WHEN SHE WOULD WALK INTO A ROOM THAT SMILE WAS CONTAGEOUS. WE MAY NEVER UNDERSTAND GODS REASONS FOR ALLOWING THESE THINGS TO HAPPEN I JUST KNOW IT WAS A BLESSING KNOWING HER EVEN EVER SO BRIEFLY.
Andy and Renee Pitts
March 1, 2008
You will never be forgotten by those that knew you well. Your giggles and the way you lit up a room will never be captured the same way by another. You had a way in which to make someone feel like they had known you for a lifetime. Our family has been a part of yours and our deepest sympathy goes to all that loved her and adored her. You will always be missed and we know that you and Reid will be in our hearts forever and in our thoughts everyday. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you in this time.
The Andy Pitts Family
Bob Dorsey
March 1, 2008
Josh Porter, John & Mary Hawkins and families. I am deeply saddened to hear the passing of Beth and her child. Beth worked with me at Caterpillar for a period of time and I considered her an absolute joy to work with and to be around. She was so in love with Josh and talked so much about her family that it was as if I knew you all. Please know that you are in my prayers and while we do not know why such a vibrant life was taken so soon, God will bless you with many memories and will comfort you when you call out to him. God bless you.
Sandra Moody
March 1, 2008
Josh & Family, I am so sorry for your loss of Beth and Reid. I lost a great friend whom I will never forget. Beth was such a great person with a glowing smile and laugh. Please if you need anything do not hesitate to call. All my prayers to you. Home Depot 2918 Waveland
Laurie Hawkins
March 1, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to our entire family. We will get through this together.
Lindsey
March 1, 2008
I am sorry for your losses. I recently lost my newborn twins and I know how much that hurts. It seems like you have a lot of friends and family that are around you for support. Just rely on those who are close to you and they will help you get through this most difficult time. Your family is in my prayers.
Denise Stearns
March 1, 2008
Beth and I hit it off the minute we met - then finding out we were from the same area in Centeral Illinois just made the bond closer. She was my best friend and I will miss her and Reid every day. She always had a smile - even on bad days, she always tried to make it into something good. We have laughed and cried together. She and Reid will always be part of me.
Denise
Kat Nestell
March 1, 2008
The one thing that probably impressed me most with Beth was her quick smile. I will miss that smile and laugh.
YN1 Charles and Alana Arabie, and son Dakota
March 1, 2008
We were so sad to hear about Beth and baby Reid. My husband is also deployed with NMCB74 and my heart just broke for Josh and the family when I heard of this horrible tragedy! I did not have the pleasure of knowing Beth personally but I know she was loved by many and will be sadly missed. Josh please know that you and the family are in our prayers daily and if I can do anything please let me know. May God carry you through this most difficult time and give you peace~
Angel and Morgan Luther
March 1, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. We worked with Beth in Gulfport for a short time and she was just an absolute ray of sunshine. She will be missed.
Bobby Gargus
March 1, 2008
I have not been with NMCB 74 very long and I am unsure if we have ever met... I find myself in sadness as I continue to pray that in all of God's mightiness, He will give you strength to make it through this somehow and that He will lay a blanket of comfort and peace over you & your families.
Chanin (Magill) Peyton
March 1, 2008
I was so sad and sorry to hear about this. I have so many great memories of growing up with Beth. My thoughts are with you all.
Mike & Jackie Joines
March 1, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family. There is no reasoning that we can understand for this loss, but we have to take comfort that God is taking care of them. As you know, we've been through our own set of tragedy lately and through the years. You never forget, but God does provide coping skills if you ask. The sting goes away, but the pain remains. Just take comfort in God and your family and friends, us among them.
Only picture I have of beth at my daughters 1st BD. Thought i share it.
Shelley Vargas
March 1, 2008
Just like everyone else I was shocked to hear the tragic news about Beth. Key west is such a transit place so when I met someone from Illinios I was thrilled. Beth & I had alot of fun together. Maybe to much on the clock. She will always be on my mind and forever in my heart, but she knows that. Josh my heart goes out to you and all I ask is if your in the keys please dont be a stanger :-(
Connie,Nicole & Nick Biddle
March 1, 2008
Our Hearts go out to you.
Ola Holland
February 29, 2008
The Porter Family
My prayers are with you,I worked with Beth at Lowe's in Gulfport. She was a sweet person. It is hard to believe she is gone. May GOD bless you all .
Ron Casasanta
February 29, 2008
We hold you in our praers.
Roletta (Renfrow) Ammons
February 29, 2008
Sorry to learn of your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all.
Crystal (Bowles) Hardyman
February 29, 2008
So sorry to hear about Beth, she will be missed! Being a classmate of hers was a joy, she always nice to everyone she talked to. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jeanette Arthur
February 29, 2008
My heart and prayer go out to you and your family. I met Beth almost two years ago when she hired me at Home Depot in Wavland. She was the first person I met and made me feel asthough this would not only become a job, but would become a family, and I was right. Last year Beth and I went to Ash Wendsday Mass together, she made me laugh during the service and it still makes me smile to this day. Beth had a heart that was so full of love and laughter, she will live on in our hearts, memories and kindness we show to others. Just remember that she is not alone, both Beth and Reid will watch over you as your special angels, and if you listen closely you will hear her whisper to you in the wind. God Bless you and help you during this tragic time. Thank you Beth, for all the wonderful smiles you've given me....
Bill, Tammy, Hayden, Keegan Painter
February 29, 2008
We extend our deepest sympathy to the entire family during this difficult time. We are praying for you daily and in the weeks ahead.
Beth (Miller) Maupin
February 29, 2008
My family lives next to Beth's aunt Theresa in Allerton. I met Beth during the summertime when were were in junior high. We were pen pals for awhile, linking on our common name. Although I haven't talked to Beth in many years, the loss of her and her baby boy broke my heart. I am so sorry for your loss, may God keep you in His hands during this time.
Lori Auth
February 29, 2008
I am truly sorry for the loss of your daughter, wife and grandchild.
Will keep you and yours in my prayers.
CM3 Prejean and Wife Kayla Prejean
February 29, 2008
Porter family:
I am really sorry about the loss of Beth. She was truly a wonderful person. She will be missed. The family is in our prayers and thoughts. Josh keep your head up if you need anything we are hear for you. Love you!
Home Depot 6313
February 29, 2008
To the Family & Friends of Beth & Jonathan Reid Porter,
All of us here at the Home Depot want you to know that we are thinking of you and send our heartfelt condolences for your loss... for all of our loss. Those of us who knew Beth have suffered this tragedy along with you and would like you to know you are not alone in your grief and sorrow. In honor of all the memories we are blessed with by having known both Beth & Josh we will be making a donation to M.A.D.D.
Sincerely,
All of the Staff at
Home Depot Key West
Corey and Kristina Pugh
February 29, 2008
So many are affected by this terrible tragedy. We mourn with you on this day and for the days to come. Please know you and your family are in our prayers. One particular Bible verse comes to mind during this time. These words are spoken by the Savior to us all "Come unto me all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke apon you and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." Matt 11:28-30
Delores Plowman
February 29, 2008
To John D., Mary, John (and Beth's husband, Josh) and the entire Hawkins family--Mom and I are devastated for your loss. Having watched Beth grow up across the street from Mom, it really hits home. You are in our prayers.
ALLISON BURGE
February 29, 2008
BETH WAS A VERY SWEET & FUN LOVING GIRL. SHE COULD CRACK YOU UP WITH HER JOKES & JUST WHAT SHE WOULD SAY. I KNOW SHE WAS EXCITED ABOUT HAVING A BABY & BECOMING A MOTHER. HER & BABY REID WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN & WILL BE MISSED VERY MUCH BY EVERYONE WHO LOVED THEM. BETH WILL ALWAYS BE APART OF HOME DEPOT 2918 FAMILY IN WAVELAND.
Carl and Rita Collins
February 29, 2008
There are no words to really express how we feel. We just send our sympathy and our love to the entire family.
We are in Sebring, Florida, but our thoughts and prayers are with you.
CM1 Victor (74) & Cindy Hinds
February 29, 2008
May GOD be with you at this time of your loss. We'll never understand why things happen the way they do, but put your trust in GOD and he will bring you through. We are Praying for You and The Families.
Charles Barrow
February 29, 2008
my thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends of Elizabeth in this tragic time.
CM3 Barrow
CMC Akins & Family
February 29, 2008
The loss of a loved one is never an easy thing to experience. We extend our deepest sympathy to the entire Porter family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Phil (Super Blue 72) Wan
February 29, 2008
Dear Josh and family,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Words I'm sure cannot describe the pain in your heart at this time. I cried when I heard of your loss from a fellow seabee of yours, possibly his name is John Carter? His name is go-fish on a car forum I frequent. I wish there was someway to comfort you now. I pray for peace and strength for you and your family at this most difficult time. May God take you in his arms and comfort you now.
Kimberly & Ray (CM2) Kilgore
February 29, 2008
Words can not begin to describe the feeling of this loss in our community. I live here in gulfport with my husband CM2 Kilgore. You work with him and recently deployed with him too. I met your wife at the babyshower that NMCB74 gave to her and other moms in our command a couple of weeks ago. The loss of your wife and baby has touched everyones heart. We are all praying for you! Kilgore says they are keeping you in there prayers out in the desert....
Ron & Arlene Esserine
February 29, 2008
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Tina (Appleby) Cole
February 29, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
david tapscott
February 29, 2008
I'm so sorry.
Jeffery Shelley
February 29, 2008
I keep you in my prayers and I am sorry for your lost. I wish it never happen. God has a gift for you and your family be strong and stay true to your self.
UT1 Thomas & Mandy Beaudette
February 29, 2008
To my brother in NMCB 74 and his family. I am new here in the battalion but my prayers are with you in these trying times. Stay strong in the knowledge that God has embraced Beth and your child and you now have them watching over you.
CM2 (SW) Nelms
February 29, 2008
Words alone cannot express my deep regret for the tragic loss of Elizabeth. Please know that all of her family and friends are in my prayers. May God comfort you all through this tragic time.
Sincerely,
-Adam & Tonya Nelms
Darlous Hull
February 29, 2008
Josh and Family,
I had the pleasure of working with Beth at Lowe's in Gulfport. I checked you, Josh, and Beth out at the Checkout many times. It was a pleasure to know both of you. You have my greatest sympathy on the passing of Beth and your unborn Son, Jonathan Reid. I never new Beth was from Illinois like myself. I have some cousins who live in Champaign. I'm originally from Quincy. We will all miss Beth's sweet personality at Lowe's, and our hearts, and prayers go out to you in this tragic time. Sincerely, Darlous, Jim, and Matthew Hull
Christopher Brown
February 29, 2008
My heart and prayers are with you and your family! As a family of NMCB 74, we sincerely support you as you have supported us. Please take care!
EO3 Chuck Parsons
February 29, 2008
I am sooo sorrie to hear about your loss. And you and your family will always be in my heart.
gerolan kilgore CM2(AW)
February 29, 2008
my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of terrible tragedy. as a fellow "fearless" seabee of 74...my heart is broken for your loss...
Karsteen and Melinda Kristensen
February 29, 2008
To the Porter Family, During your time off grief and sorrow our prayers go out to you in this time of need of understanding and soul searching of your loss, but let me pass this to you and your family that you have the support and compassion from the brotherhood of the SEABEE'S that you have touched we (SEABEES) will take care of our own and will share the pain and loss of your Wife and unborn child' but remember when you are searching for the reason and why remember that "God will not give you more than you can handle" and this is pushing that envelope,in clossing my prayers go out to you be strong and may God bless you.
CMDCM Brian Farricy
February 29, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. Stay strong. May your memories of her provide you comfort you when you need a lift.
David McDaris
February 29, 2008
Josh,
I can't begin to say how much this tragedy has wounded me. The prayers of our whole family go out to you and your folks. Beth was a great person and she will be missed.
Eric & Katheryn Faulkenberg
February 28, 2008
May you find strength in loving memories. You are in our hearts and our prayers.
Matthew Cabral
February 28, 2008
To the Porter Family and friends. Please except mine and my families heart felt sorrow for your loss. Though I never met Beth personaly, she has touched us all and we share in the emptyness that will be left in her abscence. There are no words that can take away the pain however we can find joy in remembering her as she was during the time she spent here on earth and in our hearts. God bless you all and you will be in our prayers. with deepest sympathy The Cabral Family
Eddie & Karen Currier
February 28, 2008
We are sorry for your loss. If you need anything please contact us.
Angel and SKC Carl Moore
February 28, 2008
It broke my heart to hear about these two tragic losses. Beth must have been a really special person for God to want her back so young. My husband is in 74 and it has hit him hard. He doesn't know how he'd go on if something like this ever happened to our family. Josh, Beth and baby are in our thoughts and prayers....
Joseph Johnson
February 28, 2008
Porter Family,
I am sorry for your loss, words can not express how you are feeling. Just know that you and your family our in my thoughts and prayers.
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