Fred B Niessen

Fred B Niessen obituary, Poughkeepsie, NY

Fred B Niessen

Fred Niessen Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Timothy P. Doyle Funeral Home, Inc. on Feb. 11, 2025.

Publish in a newspaper

Fred B. Niessen, 90, a 65 year resident of Dutchess County, passed away peacefully with family by his side on Sunday February 9th, 2025 at the Hudson Valley Hospice House in Hyde Park, NY just 2 days after celebrating his 90 th birthday.
Fred was born at home by a midwife on February 7th in Cochecton NY. He was the son of Francis and Margaret (Keuter) Niessen. Fred graduated from Narrowsburg HS and then went on to graduate from SUNY Delhi. Following graduation, enlisted to serve in the US Army from 1955-1958 in Panmunjom, Korea. He was very proud of his service and his country.
On February 11, 1957 he married the love of his life, Leila B. Niessen, who predeceased him in 2014. Upon honorable discharge from the Army, began his career as a Corrections Officer at Green Haven Prison retiring in 1990. Throughout his adult life, because of his commitment to providing the best life possible for his family, he worked consecutive jobs, including owning and operating the Gulf station on the TSP at Todd Hill. In retirement, because of his passion for driving and love of cars, he held many different jobs that involved deliveries, including Meals on Wheels.
He took pride in caring for the home he owned for 50 plus years. Because of his love of writing poetry, he became a distinguished member of the International Society of Poets and several pieces of his writing were published. He shared his poetry with many. A few years ago for Veterans Day, he was asked to read the poem he wrote about what the statue at Myers Corners and All Angels Hill Rd in Wappingers Falls and what it meant to him. He enjoyed visiting many of the local diners and became friends with many a server.
Fred is survived by his 5 daughters, Stephanie Lange of Poughkeepsie, Sandra Williams (David) of Highland, Susan Niessen of Wappingers Falls, Sharon Touhey(Patrick) of AZ and Sally Murphy(Dan) of Lagrangeville. Grandchildren Brian Lange, Lauren Wengert(Chris), Erin Lombardo(Danny), Joseph Whalen II(Caitlin), Sarah and Zachary Whalen, Adam Touhey(Danielle), Joshua Touhey(Taylor Strupp), Nicole and Jordan Touhey, Tyler Murphy(Marina), Logan Murphy(Taylor Low), Jack and Kate Murphy and 10 Great Grandchildren. He is also survived by his sister Mildred Meyer of Callicoon NY, his sister-in-law Donna Vannatta of Glen Spey, brother-in-law Ted Nearing (Barbara) of MD and Eric Nearing of Bethel, and many nieces and nephews.
Fred spent his last days at the Hudson Valley Hospice House where he received the most companionate and loving care imaginable. The ENTIRE staff was wonderful, from the RN's, PT, HHA's, our Social Worker, Maintenance, and Chef, not only for Fred, but for his entire family. We cannot express how fortunate we feel to have had our Dad's final days spent here, dying peacefully with dignity in comfort. In lieu of flowers, PLEASE consider donating to Hudson Valley Hospice House or The Hudson Valley Hospice Foundation to help continue the phenomenal work they do.
Services are under direction of Timothy Doyle Funeral Home, 371 Hooker Ave, Poughkeepsie, NY 12603. Calling hours will be held on Monday, February 17, 5pm-8pm at the funeral home.
A Mass of Christian Bural will be held at Holy Trinity Church, Poughkeepsie on Tuesday, February 18 at 10am Bural will follow at St Peters Cemetery, Salt Point TPK, Poughkeepsie NY If you would like to leave an online condolence, please visit www.DoyleFuneralHome.com To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Fred, please visit our floral store.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

How to support Fred's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Fred Niessen's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Fred Niessen's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?