Frederick M Hayo Jr.

Frederick M Hayo Jr. obituary, Paramus, NJ

Frederick M Hayo Jr.

Frederick Hayo Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Vander Plaat Memorial Home on Jun. 4, 2025.

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Frederick M. Hayo, Jr., 73, of Paramus, passed away on Sunday, June 1, 2025. Fred was an Ex Chief of the Paramus Fire Department, worked in Veterans Affairs for Bergen County and served our country proudly while enlisted in the United States Navy. Fred enjoyed golf, the Giants, the Mets, Frank Sinatra and Billy Joel. He was heavily involved in the community having served as a former Councilman and Recreation Commissioner in Paramus.
Beloved husband of Sharon Lynn Hayo (nee Casey). Devoted father to Kathryn Hayo and her husband Matthew, Ryan Hayo and his wife Megan, and Casey Hayo and his wife Christina. Fred was a proud grandfather to Madison, Tyler, Logan, Austin, and Emily. Dear brother of David Hayo and his wife Madelon.
Family will receive friends on Sunday, June 8, 2025 from 2:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Vander Plaat Memorial Home, 113 South Farview Avenue, Paramus, NJ. Funeral Service will be held on Monday, June 9th, 2025 at 11:00am at the Annunciation R.C. Church, 50 West Midland Ave, Paramus, NJ. Repast will be at Biagio's Ristorante, 299 Paramus Road, Paramus, NJ.
As an expression of sympathy, memorial contributions in Frederick's memory may be made to the United Stated Navy Memorial

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