Gary Lee Austin

Gary Lee Austin, a beloved husband, father, and friend to many, passed away on February 10, 2025, at the age of 66 in Virginia Beach, VA. Born on December 1, 1958, in Savannah, Georgia, to the late Olive and Decator Austin, Gary's life was defined by his unwavering love for family, his deep-rooted sense of community, and his ability to bring people together.
Gary is survived by his devoted wife of 39 years, Susan Austin, and his three sons, Wesley Austin (Celeste), Reed Austin, and Parker Austin. He also leaves behind his siblings, Decator Austin Jr. (Carol), Carolyn Culpepper (Herbert), Michael Austin (Bonnie), and Karen Hayes (David), along with several nieces and nephews. Family was the cornerstone of Gary's life, and he made it his mission to pass down the traditions, values, and love that shaped his own upbringing.
Affectionately known as the "Mayor of Kempsville," Gary had a way of making everyone feel welcome. Whether he was hosting a gathering, lending a hand, or just catching up with an old friend, he had a gift for bringing people together. A graduate of Kempsville High School's class of 1977, he maintained lifelong friendships, a testament to his kindness, loyalty, and the joy he brought to others. Gary had a love for Kempsville baseball, a passion he joyfully shared with his sons, who proudly carried on the tradition.
Gary built a career at FedEx, where he worked for 30 years. Even after retiring, his commitment to service continued as he spent the last 10 years working in the Virginia Beach public school system, where he positively impacted countless students and colleagues. His passion for mentorship and helping others succeed was evident in every stage of his life, whether through work, coaching baseball, volunteering, or simply encouraging those around him to reach their full potential.
One of Gary's greatest pastimes was being out on the water. He loved nothing more than taking family and friends out on his boat and embracing the coastal beauty of Virginia Beach. Gary found joy in time spent on his boat, in community service, and in the simple moments of life surrounded by family and friends. If you were looking for Gary on a Friday evening, you knew where to find him-AJ Gator's. It was more than just a local spot to him; it was where he caught up with friends, checked in on everyone, and made sure no one ever felt like a stranger. He loved making people feel seen, valued, and part of something bigger.
Gary's legacy is one of love, laughter, and connection and his impact will be felt for many generations to come. His family finds comfort in the countless memories, stories, and traditions that will continue to live on in those who were fortunate enough to know him. Though he has set sail on new waters, his spirit will always remain anchored in the hearts of those who loved him.
A celebration of Gary's life will be held on March 29, 2025, at 2 PM at the Culpepper Barn in Virginia Beach, VA.
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