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Gary Ela Obituary
Gary will be lovingly missed and remembered by his sisters, Nancy Hearley, Patricia Rose and Joan Sims; his brothers, Charles Ela and Brian Ela; and several nieces and nephews.
Gary's family would like to express their heartfelt appreciation to Judith and Ed Mantha, for their loving care and compassionate dedication for many years, enhancing Gary's quality of life beyond measure.
Funeral arrangements will be private and are under the care of Miles Funeral Home of Holden.
Memorial Contributions may be made to The Seven Hills Foundation, 208 Charlton Road, Sturbridge, MA 01566 (https://sevenhills.networkforgood.com/projects/173750-catalysts-for-care-in-our-community).
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