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Wilson Mortuary - SalemGary Lay Obituary
Visitation will be held from 10:00 a.m. until 12:00 p.m. Friday, March 20, 2026, in the Wilson Mortuary Salem Chapel.
Funeral Services will be held at 12:00 p.m. Friday, March 20, 2026, in the Wilson Mortuary Salem Chapel. Burial to follow in the Cedar Grove Cemetery. Arrangements are under the direction of Wilson Mortuary of Salem, Missouri.
Gary is survived by his loving wife: Carol Lay of Salem, MO; sons: Eric Lay and wife Emily of Holden, MO and Cody Lay and Amber of Salem, MO; grandchildren: Ella, Ethan, Camron, Brooklynn, Katy, and Dallas; several great-grandchildren; niece: Debbie Griggs of Springdale, AR; other relatives and dear friends.
Preceding him in death were his parents: Morris and Eula (Norris) Lay; and his brother: Herman Lay and wife Ruth.
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1000 West Scenic Rivers Blvd. Post Office Box 45, Salem, MO 65560
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1000 West Scenic Rivers Blvd. Post Office Box 45, Salem, MO 65560
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