Gary O'Hare Obituary
Born in South Plainfield, NJ, on October 5, 1960, he was the son of the late James O'Hare and Janet Jagodzinski O'Hare. In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by his brother James O'Hare.
Gary was a man who found immense joy in the simple pleasures of life. He loved the beach and the salt air, which brought him peace and happiness. His true passion, however, was walking. He could often be seen strolling through the neighborhood, covering an impressive 10 miles a day. For Gary, walking was more than a physical activity-it was a way to build his intestinal fortitude, pushing his limits and strengthening his resilience.
Above all, Gary loved his family deeply and cherished every moment with them. He had a profound appreciation for music, which filled his life with joy. Known for his empathetic nature, kindness, and generosity, he touched the lives of all who knew him, leaving a legacy of compassion and warmth.
Prior to retirement, he owned and operated a trailer park facility and was a proud member of the Sons of the American Legion Organization.
He is survived by his beloved wife, Jean Cahnovsky O'Hare; his son, Ryan O'Hare; his daughters, Marie O'Hare and Amy O'Hare; and his brother, Jefferey O'Hare.
A mass will be celebrated at 10:00 AM on Thursday, January 30, 2025, at St. Brendan the Navigator Catholic Church (5101 Ocean Hwy West, Shallotte, NC 28470).
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Brunswick Family Assistance Agency, honoring Gary's generous spirit and commitment to helping others.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Nadine & George Lubejko
January 29, 2025
We met Gary and Jean at the Deacons and it was an immediate friendship. Trips to the beach, the lake and just getting together was always so much fun. Gary was the life of the party and he doted on his wife and kids. We are so sorry for your loss and are wishing you all peace
Elizabeth Hopkins
January 23, 2025
So sorry for your loss praying for u all...gary was a friend of the our family and and was a great person he always helped when needed including when I lost my dad!!! Praying for u all
Daniel Daryoushfar
January 23, 2025
I first met Garry, when he stopped by my dealership to purchase a car. We clicked and formed a bond right then. We found common ground in the love we both have for our children and family. He would call to see how I was doing and I would do the same. He even offered to back a potential business opportunity for me. He always smiled, and even in the midst of his health challenges he never complained. Every conversation we had, he had one sentence that he used; "I´m good, life is good". And he always talked highly of his children, and how proud he was.
I´ll miss him dearly.
Lena fitz
January 16, 2025
I am so sorry. You have me courage to continue my walks.
Lena
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Don and Mary Deacon
January 14, 2025
We first met Gary around 2006. Jean, always friendly and hospitable, invited some work friends over to the house for a meal and we enjoyed their lovely outside deck and conversations filled with laughter.
18 years later.... Gary and Jean shared birthdays, sporting events, trips to the beach, Trick Or Treat, weddings, vacations and life. He almost always won at a game of pool or bocce ball. We had so many fun times together.
Dear Jean, Ryan, Marie and Amy, he was such a special man. Kind, compassionate, generous and had a wonderful sense of humor. We will miss our good, good friend. Your Friends, Don and Mary
Senada Templeton
January 11, 2025
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
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