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Richard Clark
October 9, 2025
I would like to express my sincere condolences to Bau´s family. I never met Bau although I occasionally bumped into him at the Center for Cultural Exchange. I did however attend many performances that he and Phyllis organized and presented. He introduced me to many musicians and genres from around the world. Throat singers, Afropop, American avant-garde jazz, and American treasures like Tony Bennett all came to Portland because he brought them. I still listen to many of the musicians he introduced me to. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and taste. You made my world a better place.
Greg Soper
October 9, 2025
I remember, as we got Gus and my son Alex ready to go to baseball practice for whatever league 8 year olds are in and Bau, not being a sports guy saying "Ok boys get your costumes on it´s time for rehearsal "
Jose L. Murillo (Old Town School of Folk Music Teacher)
October 9, 2025
My sincere condolences to the family of Bau Graves. He will be greatly missed and great memories of Bau here at OTSFM.

Barbara Silverman
October 8, 2025
Bau was a colleague, a mentor, a travel partner, a musical inspiration, in some ways a brother to me. His departure is a puncture. His huge legacy lives on.
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Jacob Sweet
October 8, 2025
I am saddened to hear this. My condolences to his family and loved ones. May his memory be a blessing.
Sue Demel
October 8, 2025
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