James M. Milder

James M. Milder obituary, Downers Grove, IL

James M. Milder

James Milder Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Cappetta’s West Suburban Funeral Home & Cremation Services - Downers Grove on Apr. 17, 2025.

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James M. Milder, 78, of Woodridge, at rest April 16, 2025. Born July 11, 1946 in Chicago, IL to Elmer and Georgiana (nee Dubina). Beloved father of Jamie (Allen Goralski) Nelson, Jeffrey Milder and Mindy (Eric) Tertell; devoted grandfather of Ryleigh Nelson, Nicholas and Hannah Tertell; dearest brother of Edward Milder and Nancy Worrell; fond uncle of nieces and nephews. Jim was very active in girls softball, both as a coach and an IHSA umpire. He had a love of history and was blessed with a great sense of humor. Above all, Jim was deeply devoted to his family, especially his grandchildren. Memorial Mass Friday May 2, 2025 at 11:30 A.M. at St. Mary of Gostyn Church 445 Prairie Ave., Downers Grove. Inurnment Assumption Cemetery, Winfield, IL. Info 630-852-8000 or westsuburbanfh.com
MEMORIAL MASS: May 2, 2025
Day: Friday
Time: 11:30 A.M.
Location: St. Mary of Gostyn Church 445 Prairie Ave Downers Grove
INURNMENT: Assumption Cemetery

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April 19, 2025

Mel Krieger posted to the memorial.

April 18, 2025

Randy Burge posted to the memorial.

April 17, 2025

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Mel Krieger

April 19, 2025

So sorry to learn of Casey's passing. Jim and I met in our earlier years at Eastern Illinois University. The obituary is spot on regarding his sense of humor. We did not spend a lot of time at Eastern since he transferred on to another school but we kept in contact when the college days were over. Just can't describe the good times we had together with his family get togethers. He was just a fun guy and fantastic friend. He and his family will always be in my prayers.

Randy Burge

April 18, 2025

I met Jim while we were students at EIU. We have attended each others family weddings and funerals, and recently we have met for lunch or dinner several times a year. Throughout it all, Jim has been a kind and loyal friend that loved his family very much. He will be missed.

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