James Michael Nelson

James Michael Nelson obituary, San Antonio, TX

James Michael Nelson

James Nelson Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Funeral Caring USA - Drexel Avenue - South Central San Antonio on Mar. 13, 2026.
In Loving Memory of

James Michael Nelson

11/28/1994 - 03/04/2026

James Michael Nelson of San Antonio, Texas, passed away on March 4, 2026, surrounded by love.

James was born in Houston, Texas. He was known for his goofy personality, quick sense of humor, and his ability to make the people around him laugh. He had a deep love for music and especially enjoyed playing the guitar, often rocking out to heavy metal. He was also an avid video game enthusiast and loved sharing that hobby with friends and family.

If you were loved by James, you always had an ally. He was a loyal friend, a fierce protector, and someone the people in his life could always count on.

James is survived by his beloved wife, Tara Holt; his parents, Kerri Carmer-Crabb and her husband Frank Crabb, and Aaron Nelson and his wife Dasha Nelson; his grandparents, Karen Miller, Steve and Cheral Carmer, and Jim and Ann Nelson; and his siblings, Anna, Sarah, Josh, Grace, and Jayden. He also leaves behind three nieces and one nephew who will continue to carry his memory forward. In addition, he leaves behind a close group of childhood friends who loved him like a brother.

James was preceded in death by his great-grandmother, lovingly known as "Nanny"; his great-grandfather, "Pop"; and his grandmother, Rebecca Dubose, and her husband.

James will be remembered for his laughter, his music, his loyalty, and the joy he brought to those around him. His memory will live on in the hearts of everyone who knew and loved him.

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