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Jane Ellen Startz

9/22/1943 - 12/12/2025

Jane Ellen Startz obituary, 9/22/1943-12/12/2025, Groton, CT

BORN

9/22/1943

DIED

12/12/2025

FUNERAL HOME

Mystic Funeral Home

51 Williams Ave.

Mystic, Connecticut

Jane Startz Obituary

Groton - It is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of Jane Ellen (Tabor) Startz of Groton, who entered her final resting place Dec. 12, 2025, peacefully at home beside her loving husband.

Born Sept. 22, 1943, in Charleston, S.C., Jane was the daughter of the late Clifford and Norma Tabor. She was also predeceased by her brother, Clifford Tabor Jr.

She is survived by her devoted husband of 65 years, Robert Startz of Groton; three children, Sharon Elizabeth Startz of Norwich, David Startz of New London, and Bruce Startz and his wife Laurie of Ledyard; eight grandchildren: Jennifer Anderson, Dana Gladstone and her partner Kurt Delaney, Robin Gladstone, Adam Gladstone, Brooke (Startz) Mergy and her husband Caius Mergy, Cassandra Jane Startz and her partner John Worobey, Alex Rapp and Adam Rapp; and two great-grandchildren, Rowan Clesowich-Gladstone and baby Eden Mergy; as well her beloved dog, Buddy.

Jane worked most of her career as a human resources administrator at Arwood Corporation in Groton. She took tremendous pride in her work and made a lasting impact on those she served. She was a dedicated member of the Old Mystic and Poquonnock Bridge Baptist Churches, where she found warmth and joy in her church communities.

Jane was a warrior who battled multiple illnesses over the years. She was small in stature, but large in life and perseverance. She was truly an inspiration and loved unconditionally, especially her children and grandchildren. Her marriage to her husband, Robert, was an incredible example of true love and devotion. Her legacy will certainly have a lasting impact on her family and the numerous lives she touched.

The family would like to recognize the staff and community at Solstice in Groton, for their love and support.

A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m. Jan. 10, 2026, at Poquonnock Bridge Baptist Church, 1241 Poquonnock Road, Groton. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Poquonnock Bridge Baptist Church.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Dec. 18, 2025.

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John and Judy Haley

December 21, 2025

Jane was such a special. So generous and kind. I enjoyed our visits and just knowing her. We love you Jane and will miss you dearly.

Kristine Spakowski Paul

December 20, 2025

I met Bob and Jane when they would come to pick up Pat O'Connor with Cal Lewerk for a night on the town. She was a lovely lady and my sympathies go out to her family.

Don Deane

December 18, 2025

Rest in Peace, Jane. My condolences to the Startz family.
Don Deane

Cheryl Carbray

December 18, 2025

Jane and Bob were good friends to my late mother ( Rosalind). They had many good times and great laughs over the years. Jane will be missed. My prayers and thoughts are with your family. Rest in peace.

Lawrence carl Land

December 18, 2025

Bob May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Barbara Bracci Jones

December 18, 2025

My deepest condolences to Jane's family.

Joan & Steve Eaton

December 18, 2025

Jane was a true friend. She touched many lives with kindness always. She will be missed

Dave Fairman

December 18, 2025

Rest in Peace Jane

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