Jason Michael Lapham

Jason Michael Lapham obituary, Bonita Springs, FL

Jason Michael Lapham

Jason Lapham Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Legacy Options Funeral and Cremation Services, LLC - Bonita Springs on Jan. 13, 2025.
Jason Michael Lapham, 52, of Grandville, MI, passed away on December 26, 2024, while on vacation with his family in Marco Island, FL. He faced a brave nine-year battle with stage IV cancer, leaving behind a legacy of strength, love, and kindness.
Born on May 10, 1972, in Battle Creek, MI, Jason was a graduate of Tri-Unity High School and earned a degree in Computer Science from Grand Valley State University. Throughout his career, he worked as an IT technician, builder/business owner, and a caseworker for the State of Michigan, always committed to helping others.
Jason is survived by his loving wife, Susan Lapham, and their two children, Aubrey (16) and Gavin (17), who were his greatest joy and pride. He is also survived by his mother, Sandra Kent; brother, Christopher (Rowdy), and sister-in-law, Jessica Lapham; along with many aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, and nephews. Jason was preceded in death by his father, Michael Lapham.
Known for his generous spirit and warm smile, Jason brought light into the lives of all who knew him. He had a passion for gardening, woodworking, and attending his children's school events. He enjoyed taking drives with his family in his Jeep with the top down and was always eager to dive into his next building project. Jason's philosophy in life was simple: "Anything is fixable; it just depends on how much work you're willing to put into it," a mindset he lived by daily.
An avid supporter of the Detroit Lions, Jason loved following the team and was an enthusiastic participant in his fantasy football league and Clash of Clans competitions. His cancer and hematology care team became like family to him, with his oncologist referring to him as a "walking miracle".
Jason's life was a powerful example of perseverance and living with purpose, no matter the obstacles. His family is deeply grateful for the care and support of his medical team and loved ones throughout his journey.
In honor of his memory, the family invites all who attend the funeral to wear Detroit Lions attire, celebrating Jason's love for his favorite team.
A funeral service will be held on Monday, February 3, 2025, at Keystone Church, 655 Spaulding Ave SE, Ada, MI 49301. Visitation will be held from 5:30 to 6:00 PM, followed by the service at 6:00 PM.
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October 6, 2025

Cheri posted to the memorial.

March 7, 2025

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February 3, 2025

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Cheri

October 6, 2025

So sorry to recently hear of Jason´s passing here on earth. Knew him from Dr. Don´s Bible Health class. Prayers for peace, comfort and sweet memories. Mike and Cheri Hogan

Teresa Eaves Gaikema

March 7, 2025

So sad to hear of Jason's passing. He was my buddy back in the day, and I cared so deeply for the family.
Praying for you all.

Kelly Penskar

February 3, 2025

Jason had the biggest, brightest smile and a hardy laugh. His love will live on in all of us. I am grateful for the impact and example he left in me. Rest in peace dear nephew.

Jason Kent

January 28, 2025

I always enjoyed watching sports and playing fantasy football with Jason. Our deepest sympathies and prayers are with you Susan, Aubrey, Gavin, Sandra, Rowdy, and Andrew.

- Jason, Jen, and Adelaide Kent

Karol Jenney

January 23, 2025

I have many happy memories of my Nephew (and friend) Jason, while spending time at my Sister Sandra´s house with her and the boys as they were growing up; being present as he spoke his vows so lovingly to Susan on their wedding day, and enjoying time talking, laughing, playing games, and sitting together on their deck or by their fire pit with he and his family (and Bandit too, of course)!

Jason´s amazing smile lit up a room! He smiled a lot and even more so when he talked with or about his family. Jason was a man of faith who lived simply, laughed often, and loved deeply. His was surely a life well lived!

I continue to be inspired by Jason´s walk of faith, and generosity of spirit. That to me, is a very large part of his legacy. Until we meet again, I will remember him lovingly and miss him dearly.

"Auntie" Karol

Mary Lapham Dey

January 19, 2025

Jason was a special nephew to me. We shared kids in the summers with Chris, Jason and Andy coming to our house, being wild little boys with my sons Chad, Patrick and David. Then off they´d go to the Lapham farm for more shenanigans. We shared such great memories and Jason was often in the lead. He was one of a kind, thoughtful and loving with a great sense of humor. As an adult we hired him to roof our garage and on his way home one night he ran into a small tree along our driveway. The next morning when he drove in he saw a sign that said "Jason´s tree". We laughed forever on this. To this day it´s Jason´s Tree. I´ll miss his big smile and huge hugs. RIP, sweet nephew, you fought as hard as long as anyone could. I´ll always love you.

Karen Schnurstein

January 16, 2025

My cousin Jay was special to me and always will be. Maybe it was a middle-child connection. I just always had a fondness for him. He was a really good guy. I know he will be missed by many. Love always, Karen

Dan Behrens

January 16, 2025

I remember Jason being on my team in cornhole. Normally, we were pitted against each other. I dubbed ourselves, "The Dream Team" and we quickly dispatched the competition and won the championship for that day.

Dan Behrens

January 16, 2025

My first memory of Jason was from my sister. She was telling me of a guy she had met and that she was going to marry him. I said, "I'll believe it when I see you walking down the aisle!" Well, a few years later, she was walking down the aisle and I was a believer!

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