Jay Brooks Huff Jr

Jay Brooks Huff Jr., beloved husband, brother, friend, and music aficionado, passed away peacefully on October 11, 2025, in Matthews, North Carolina. He was 62.
Born in Donelson, Tennessee, on September 18, 1963, Jay was adopted as an infant by Frances and Jay Huff, who gave him a life filled with love, creativity, and warmth. Alongside his sister Aurelia Baker, Jay grew up a curious and spirited child-always in motion, always exploring. His rocking horse was his first stage, and from there, he galloped into a life of passion and connection.
Jay's teenage years were marked by a search for belonging, often found in the company of friends and the comforting embrace of home. He cherished the moments spent with his mother-listening to her play piano, savoring her soulful cooking, and admiring her vivid paintings and family portraits. Her artistry shaped his appreciation for beauty and legacy.
Music was Jay's compass. After college, he spent over three decades traveling the country and the world to hear his favorite bands. He wasn't just a fan-he was a fixture in the music community, a taper in the early days, often spotted in the pit with his mic stand, capturing the magic. He shared his love of music freely, turning strangers into friends and concerts into communion. His collection of rock memorabilia was more than a hobby-it was a living archive of joy, connection, and memory.
Jay's generosity extended beyond the stage. As the owner of Sunshine Daydreams, a beloved retail store in Charlotte for over 20 years, he became a beacon of kindness. He offered credit to those in need, gave food and money to the homeless, and lent a listening ear to anyone who walked through his door. Many discovered their favorite band-or their own voice-thanks to Jay.
A proud Brother of Pi Kappa Phi, Jay lived by the principles of loyalty, service, and brotherhood. He wore his blue and gold with honor and held his fraternity bonds close throughout his life.
Jay met his soulmate, Jennifer Huff, in college. Their friendship blossomed into a love story that spanned nearly two decades. Together, they shared the road, the music, and a life built on laughter, devotion, and shared dreams.
Jay is survived by his loving wife Jennifer Huff; his sister and brother-in-law, Aurelia and Randy Baker; his cousins; and his extended family through Jennifer. His absence leaves a profound silence, but his spirit echoes in every song, every memory, and every heart he touched.
He was a gentle giant with a booming voice, a generous soul, and a heart that beat in rhythm with the world around him. Jay will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and the music community he so dearly loved.
"May the four winds blow you safely home."