Jay Haworth Reilly

Jay Haworth Reilly obituary, Oyster Bay, NY

Jay Haworth Reilly

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Jay Reilly Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Francis P. DeVine Funeral Home, Inc. on Oct. 10, 2025.

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JAY HAWORTH REILLY Born April 10, 1951, in Dhahran, Saudi Arabia, grew up in Carle Place NY. Jay raised her children in her favorite small town of Oyster Bay, NY. She is survived by her fabulous daughters Kerry Zolotas (Harry) & Debbie Reilly (Luis), Grandchildren Shawn (Courtney), Kaitlin (Wilber), Demitra, Liam & Declan, Great grandchildren Mason, & Kennedy, sisters, Donna Haworth & Roberta Raya (Alex)and her beloved nieces and nephew. She was pre-deceased by her brother, Greason Philip Haworth Sr., Sister Margaret Haworth, Cousin Richard Velez, Cousin/sister & best friend Denise Carnabuci. She was hardworking, full of love, sarcasm & sass. The only things she needed in this world to make her happy were her grandchildren, her chickies,a good cup of coffee, some juicy gossip and a side of mayo.
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Oct

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7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.

Francis P. DeVine Funeral Home, Inc.

293 South Street, Oyster Bay, NY 11771

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