Jefferson Patrick O'Day

Jefferson Patrick O'Day obituary, Simi Valley, CA

Jefferson Patrick O'Day

Jefferson O'Day Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Reardon Simi Valley Funeral Home - Simi Valley on Oct. 1, 2025.

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Jefferson Patrick O'Day, affectionately known as Jeff, was born on September 21 1961, in Bellflower, California. He passed away peacefully on March 13, 2025, in Simi Valley, California, leaving behind a legacy of love and cherished memories.
Jeff was a devoted husband to his wife, Emma Lozano-Audish, who accompanied him through life's journeys with unwavering support and affection. Together, they created a home filled with laughter and warmth, building a life rich with shared experiences that will be deeply missed by all who knew them.
As a father, Jeff took immense pride in nurturing his daughters, Marilyn Stewart and Jacqueline O'Day, who were truly the light of his life. Their bond was built on love, guidance, and countless memories that they will forever treasure. Jeff also embraced his role as a step-father to Michael Audish, extending his fatherly wisdom and kindness to him. The love he bestowed upon his children and step-son will continue to resonate in their hearts, guiding them in their own lives.
Jeff's family connections extended beyond his immediate household; he was a beloved son to Carol O'Day, who provided him with steadfast love throughout his life. His sister, Kerry O'Day Nelson, and his sister, Jeannie Wagner, shared in both his joys and his struggles, creating lifelong bonds that exemplified the true meaning of family.
Though his heart was heavy with the loss of his daughter, Megan Katherine O'Day, who predeceased him, and his father, Pat Olin O'Day, Jeff carried their legacy within him, embodying the essence of family that they instilled in him. Their memories were woven into the fabric of his being, guiding him in times of joy and sorrow.
In celebration of Jeff's life, a memorial service will be held on March 23, 2025, at 2:00 PM, followed by a time for reflection at 3:00 PM. The service will take place at a location to be determined, honoring his many friends and loved ones who wish to pay their respects and share in the remembrance of this remarkable man.
Jeff's journey through life was characterized by his kindness, sense of humor, and profound love for his family. While he may have departed from this world, his spirit will remain forever in the hearts of those he loved and who loved him. His legacy will endure, reminding us all of the importance of love, family, and the moments that bring us together.
Memorial Service
Sunday, March 23rd, 2025
02:00 pm
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