Jeffrey Bender Obituary
He was born September 21, 1995 in Buffalo, NY to Thomas Bender and Aimee Lachut.
Jeffrey attended Lockport City Schools and went on to work for Beauty Pools and ending up at Ivy lea Construction the last few years.
He was an avid Buffalo Bills and Sabres fan. Jeff enjoyed playing darts, golfing, video games, working outdoors, his family dogs and spending time with family and friends.
Jeff was affectionately known as Brother Big.
He is survived by his son Jameson, his parents Thomas (Judy) Bender and Aimee (Brent) Lachut, his siblings Katie, Cole, Bella, Brody, Wes, Chloe, Zack, Tyler and Anthony: his niece Evolet, his nephews Lucas and Atlas; his grandmother Terry Brown. Also survived by many Aunts, Uncles and Cousins.
Jeff was pre deceased by his grandparents Dan Brown, Robert and Esther Bender.
Relatives and friends may visit DiStasio Funeral Home Inc. 478 Route 83 at Balcom Corners South Dayton Tuesday February 28, 2023 from 4PM to 7PM where a funeral service will be held Wednesday March 1, 2023 at 11AM with Brad Ringer officiating.
Interment will be in Villenova Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers donations may be made to Patricia Allen Wing at John R. Oishei Childrens Hospital 818 Ellicott St Buffalo, NY 14203 due to Jeff's love for the Buffalo Bills.
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Darcell Danzeisen
February 28, 2023
Always a friend I will never forget. I´ll miss you Jeff (Earthquakeman). We had some good times in Minnesota at my family resort.
My deepest condolences to the surviving family.
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Maria Schenk
February 26, 2023
Tom, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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