Jeffrey Dobbin

Jeffrey Dobbin obituary, Ithaca, NY

Jeffrey Dobbin

Jeffrey Dobbin Obituary

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Jeffrey Dobbin, 61, passed away on September 17, 2023, after a courageous and inspirational battle with cancer, at Hospicare in Ithaca, NY. He was born on June 7, 1962 in Kingston, NY. He was preceded in death by his loving parents, William and Bernadette Dobbin, and his sister, Diane Dobbin. He is survived by his children, Megan (Matt Traphagen) Dobbin and Marcus Dobbin, grandchildren, Adrian Dobbin and Kyrie Alger, siblings, Gregg (Geri) Dobbin, Kathy (Jerry) Winkler, Laurie (Rick) Alle, Billy (Debbie) Dobbin, and Nancy (John) Shaw, his partner, Kate Seaman, many nieces and nephews, and countless friends.
Jeff grew up in Endwell, NY in a traditional Irish household filled with support and love. Family was at the heart of everything he held dear. Jeff worked hard to support his own family and give his children access to every possible opportunity while instilling traditional morals and values, and above all by doing so with love. Next to his family, was his incredible group of friends. Jeff considered his friends a second family and always enjoyed being surrounded by them whether it was boys' weekends to see Jimmy Buffet, time spent on the lake, the golf course, or a trivia night. He lit up a room, and he certainly never met a stranger. His outgoing and general goodhearted nature attracted people to him, and him to people.
Community was also very important to Jeff. Throughout his illustrious banking career, he took great pride in helping to build and support the local business community as a Commercial Lender. In the last 25 years of his career Jeff worked as a Vice President of Commercial/Business Lending at local area banks. Jeff also supported the community by running and coaching the Ithaca 6th grade boys travel basketball team for 15+ years, many of those years with his son Marcus coaching by his side. He took joy in teaching the fundamentals of basketball and acting as a mentor to countless young men, many of whom continued to call him "Coach" long after. Prior to this, Jeff also spent many years coaching in the CYO basketball league in the Endicott area at the JV/Varsity level.
Jeff lived a life guided by a strong moral compass and with integrity. He always told his family and friends how much he loved them and did so often. He was a man who left a mark on the world and left it a brighter place. He will be sorely missed but will always be celebrated, which is just the way he would want it.
Jeff's family would like to thank the wonderful nurses and staff at Hospicare of Ithaca who provided so much compassion and care for him and his loved ones in his last days of life.
Visitation will be held at St. Catherine's of Sienna church on Saturday, September 30th, 2023 from 10:00am to 11:00am. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow at 11:00am with Father Joseph Marcoux officiating. A private burial to follow at Calvary Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to The Coach Dobbin Humanitarian Award through the Ithaca Public Education Initiative (IPEI.org) or to Hospicare of Ithaca.
Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to Bangs Funeral Home, Ithaca, NY. Online condolences may be made to Jeffrey's family at www.bangsfuneralhome.com.
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Ronald J Buckley

September 28, 2023

One of the things I remember about Jeff is that he always liked to drink a Chocolate YooHoo the morning after a night of partying. I was thinking alot about Jeff at work last Thursday and when I pulled into my driveway at the end of the day I was greeted with a can of Chocolate YooHoo on the curb in front of my house. I grabbed the half-empty can, brought it into the house, and asked my wife who it reminded her of - she said 'Jeff' without any hesitation. What makes this extraordinary is that nobody in my house drinks YooHoo. I just wonder if it was a message from Jeff...

Ronald J Buckley

September 28, 2023

I remember when I went camping with Jeff many years ago in the Adirondacks. We decided to go fishing on this one particular trip so we made a visit to the Ausable Chasm to try our luck. Jeff's friend Ramps was with us and was wading in the river when his foot got stuck in quicksand. Jeff and I decided that Ramps would not be able to extract himself from the quicksand - he was sinking slowly but surely. So I grabbed Ramps from behind and pulled while Jeff went underwater and dug with his hands. Ramps was freed and after that none of us was in the mood to do anymore fishing so we just headed back to camp.

Ronald J Buckley

September 28, 2023

My first memory of Jeff is when he played on my Dad's basketball team at IBM Country Club.

Ron Buckley

September 28, 2023

Ron Buckley

September 28, 2023

Ronald J Buckley

September 23, 2023

My first memory of Jeff was as a basketball teammate on my Dad's IBM basketball team probably 50 years ago or so. He always had a temper when he played and took the game very seriously - a true competitor. You would think that his temper would scare the other players away, but everyone seemed to look up to him as the unofficial 'captain' of the team. I could see even back then that he was a natural coach.

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