Jeffrey Donald Gram

Jeffrey Donald Gram obituary, St. Paul, MN

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Jeffrey Donald Gram, age 66, of Albertville, Minnesota, passed away peacefully on September 21, 2025. Born on April 1, 1959, in Anoka to Donald and Donna Gram, Jeff graduated from St. Francis High School and went on to build a life defined by hard work, dedication, and deep love for his family.

Jeff spent his career as a skilled mechanic and heavy machinery operator, working for various employers before finding his true calling with Larry Miller at Miller Trucking of Hanover. He took immense pride in his work-especially in the gravel pit-where he rarely missed a day, always showing up with determination and a strong work ethic. Outside of work, Jeff loved to travel with his wife, Candy. Together, they often met up with his parents during the winter months, camping in the South with their 5th wheel trailer. These trips were filled with laughter, stories, and the simple joys of life on the road.

Known for his incredible ability to fix just about anything, Jeff was a true mechanic at heart. Whether it was a truck, a tool, or something around the house, he could always find a way to make it work. He was also known for his love of Pepsi and a cigarette-you'd rarely see him without one or the other in hand.

Jeff is survived by his beloved wife, Candy Gram; daughters Tina (Mike) Ellingson and Jennifer Sellner (Warren); grandchildren Corynne Ellingson, Nicholas Sellner, Zach Sellner, and Aiden Sellner. He is also survived by his parents, Donald and Donna Gram; siblings Michael (Kris) Gram, Nancy (Lyle) Palm, Daniel (Lori) Gram, and Monte (Michelle) Gram; as well as many other cherished brothers- and sisters-in-law, nieces, nephews, great-nieces, and great-nephews who will miss him dearly.

He was preceded in death by his grandparents, Claude and Bessie Connett and Buel and Adeline Gram; brothers-in-law Daniel Rowe, Thomas Virkus, and Leonard Virkus; sister-in-law Bunny McKee; and nephew Charles Virkus.

A celebration of Jeff's life will be held at the very home where he married the love of his life, Candy, on October 11, 2025, from 1 to 4 PM, located at 12211 278th Ave NW, Zimmerman, MN 55398. Family and friends are invited to gather, share memories, and honor the legacy of a man who gave so much to those around him.

Jeff will be remembered for his loyalty, his laughter, and the quiet strength he carried through life. He leaves behind a legacy of love, hard work, and family.

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