Joan Brittan Obituary
Obituary published on Legacy.com by Goldfinch Funeral Home - Beach Chapel - Murrells Inlet on Apr. 7, 2025.
In Loving Memory of Joan Beverly Brittan
Joan Beverly Brittan, age 83, passed away peacefully at her home on Thursday, April 3, 2025, surrounded by the love and comfort of her family.
Born in Washington, D.C., Joan was the beloved daughter of the late John and Mildred Walter. From an early age, Joan's adventurous spirit shone brightly. Alongside her brother Joe, she fearlessly explored the streets of the city, often venturing beyond the bounds of their neighborhood in search of fun and mischief. As a teenager, she was known for zipping around in her turquoise Ford convertible, soaking in life's moments and generously doting on her younger siblings with gifts and spontaneous outings.
Joan's most cherished role in life began when she married her first husband, Ronald Speiden, and became the devoted mother of three children: Rick, Sheila, and Shelly. She was a mother in every profound sense-nurturing, compassionate, and fiercely supportive. Joan poured her heart into raising her children, always going above and beyond in encouraging their individuality and dreams. Her love knew no bounds.
Her role as "Nana" (or lovingly, "Nanda") to her grandchildren brought her even greater joy. Known for her energy, warmth, and endless generosity, Joan built lasting bonds with each grandchild-and later, her great-grandchildren-whom she visited often and spoiled with love. Her family will always treasure the summers they spent together, and the joy she brought into their lives.
Joan found her calling as a culinary arts teacher with the Prince George's County, MD school system, specifically at Croom Vocational High School. She was a beacon of inspiration and support for her students, many of whom faced personal challenges. Her impact was profound-one of her former students, Bryan, credits her guidance and mentorship for his success as a 5-star chef in a nationally renowned D.C. hotel. Joan often referred to him as her "second son," and their bond endured through the years.
Although she endured the heartbreak of being widowed three times, Joan found deep love and companionship with each of her husbands-Ronald Speiden, Lawrence Soper, and James Brittan. Each love story added richness to her life and brought her immeasurable happiness.
Joan had many passions, but none lit up her heart quite like cooking and cake decorating. She poured love and creativity into every dish she made, and her cakes were nothing short of masterpieces-elegant, intricate, and crafted with care for weddings, birthdays, and every celebration in between. Her artistry in the kitchen was matched only by the joy she found in sharing her creations with others.
Outside the kitchen, Joan's lively spirit truly shone at the card table. With razor-sharp instincts and a legendary poker face, she was a force to be reckoned with-especially when playing poker with family or hearts with her grandsons. Always playful and full of wit, her parting words before a winning hand were often a soft hum of "Know when to hold 'em," a wink to Kenny Rogers and a gentle warning that her opponents were in trouble.
Friday night bingo was another treasured tradition-a weekly ritual filled with laughter, good company, and friendly rivalry, often shared with her sister, mother, cousin, and close friends. These simple, meaningful gatherings captured the essence of who Joan was: vibrant, generous, and always bringing people together in love and laughter.
A spirited fan of the Maryland Terrapins men's basketball team, Joan rarely missed a game, decked out in her favorite jerseys and cheering passionately with her signature chant: "No basket, Maryland get the ball!" Her love of sports extended to the Washington Redskins, whom she supported faithfully-even through the losses. A highlight of her fandom was attending the inaugural game at RFK Stadium, where she famously caught a field goal ball and later donated it back to the team in 1978. She also adored watching Tiger Woods-whom she affectionately referred to as "her Tager"-but only if he made the cut.
In 1991, Joan embraced retirement and relocated to Myrtle Beach, SC with her second husband, Larry. There, she continued her active and generous lifestyle. She proudly served as President of the American Legion Post 178 Ladies Auxiliary in the mid-1990s and volunteered with Myrtle Beach Meals on Wheels. Joan also created joyful experiences for local children and developed a special friendship with a young neighbor, David. The two spent hours drawing, playing, and laughing-parting each visit with hugs and his sweet words: "You're my best friend, Ms. Joan."
Joan was preceded in death by her three beloved husbands, Ronald Speiden, Lawrence Soper, and James Brittan; her son, Richard Speiden; sister, Carole Fischer; brother, Joseph Walter; and brother-in-law, Jack Spadaro.
She is survived by her daughters, Sheila Gauntt (Stuart) and Shelly Pesato; her cherished grandchildren, Ashleigh Rolland (William), Kyle Whelan, Ronald Jett, Shannon Valenti (Joe), Vincent Pesato, Heather Libonati (Nick), and Sarah Gauntt; and great-grandchildren, Aaliyah, Hailey, Zoey, Philip, Willow, Olive, and Margo. She is also survived by her loving siblings, Darlene Spadaro and Dennis Walter (Susie).
A Visitation will be held at 10:00 AM Monday, April 14, 2025. A Funeral Service to honor and celebrate Joan's life will follow at 11:00 AM at Goldfinch Funeral Home, Beach Chapel.
Goldfinch Funeral Home, Beach Chapel is serving the family.