John H. Ahlf

John H. Ahlf obituary

John H. Ahlf

John Ahlf Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Dapson Chestney Funeral Home - Rhinebeck from Jul. 25 to Jul. 26, 2025.
Clinton – John H. Ahlf, 87, passed away at his home on July 24, 2025, with his beloved wife by his side.

Born in Rhinebeck on October 10, 1937, he was the son of the late Henry and Mary (Kennedy) Ahlf. John was raised in Clinton Corners and spent a brief time in Florida caring for his grandparents before returning to complete his education, graduating from Rhinebeck High School in 1954.

At the age of 19, while working in the produce department at Grand Union, John noticed a flyer for IBM. He enrolled in their electronics training program and went on to enjoy a long and successful career with the company, retiring in 1992. His work with IBM took him around the world, where he formed lasting friendships.

While at IBM, John met Shirley Pitcher. The two married and had two daughters, Laura and Patty. John and Shirley were married until her unexpected passing in 1981.

In 1982, John met Candace "Candy" Taylor, and they were married on November 5, 1988, in a church in Port Ewen, NY. Candy survives him at home in Clinton Corners.

John lived life to the fullest. He was a pilot, a race car driver, a skilled mechanic, a motorcyclist, and a wedding photographer. He was also a ham radio operator, an avid gardener-especially known for his tomatoes-and a talented musician. For years, he and Shirley hosted Friday night jam sessions at their home, welcoming musicians from near and far, including friends he met while in Germany. After Shirley's passing, John and Candy continued the Friday night music jam sessions, carrying on the tradition of friendship and music. In later years, John continued playing trumpet at church services.

A lifelong animal lover, John and Candy rescued German Shepherds and even organized a German Shepherd drill team. He also had a passion for horses and was active in showing cows.

In addition to his wife Candy, John is survived by his daughters, Laura (Paul) Lettieri and Patty (Stephen Jr.) Sarvis; his cherished grandchildren, Chase Sarvis, Isabella Lettieri, and Paige Sarvis; and Candy's children, Colin Beauregard and Amy Beauregard Bullins. He is also survived by many nieces, nephews, and dear friends.

Calling hours will be held on Tuesday, July 29, from 10:00 AM to 12:00 PM at Dapson-Chestney Funeral Home, 51 W. Market St., Rhinebeck, NY. A funeral service will follow at 12:00 PM at the funeral home, with burial at Schultzville Cemetery.

Memorial donations in John's honor may be made to 13 Hands Equine Rescue Inc., 50 Tuscan Way, Clinton Corners, NY 12514.

To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of John H. Ahlf, please visit our floral store.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

How to support John's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor John Ahlf's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign John Ahlf's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?