John Carter Obituary
Born on September 3, 1954, in Georgetown, South Carolina, to Nesbit and Minerva Carter, John spent 52 years in Georgetown before making his home in Lexington, SC.
John had a lifelong passion for music-especially rock 'n' roll-and could often be found at concerts sharing that joy with friends and family. Recovery was also an important part of John's life. Having achieved sobriety twice, he spent 32 of the last 34 years in recovery. His resilience and openness inspired many who walked a similar path. Through his work in corrections, treatment centers, and counseling, he was able to help many people. Whether it was turning up the volume on a favorite song or telling a story that made everyone laugh, John had a way of bringing energy and warmth to any room.
He is survived by his wife, Patty; daughters, Ginna Taylor, Caitie Harlan (James), Casey Starnes (Robert), and Kendall Skelton (Erich). His unconditional and unbridled love for his wife and family was the foundation on which he built his life. His greatest joy was being "Geegee" to his grandchildren-Madelyn, Rylee, Evie, Teddy, and August. John was preceded in death by his parents, Nesbit and Minerva Carter.
A celebration of John's life will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, the family encourages friends to honor his memory by turning up their favorite song and sharing it with someone they love.
"May you grow up to be righteous
May you grow up to be true
May you always know the truth
And see the light surrounding you
May you always be courageous
Stand upright and be strong
May you stay forever young"
-Bob Dylan
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Lep boyd, Jr
Yesterday
I knew Nesbit & Minerva when I was a child in the late `40s. Then knew John when he was a communicant of Prince George Church, in Georgetown.
My condolences to John´s family.
Kathy Mcgrogan
Yesterday
I had the privilege of knowing John when he found recovery in Georgetown. He was a good man and always had a wonderful way of making others happy when they were with him. John and I shared one exceptional moment in that we were together at the detention center to see a client when we learned that the World Trade Centers had been hit been hit. Sending sincere condolences to Patty and the girls.
Emily Allen
Yesterday
Patty, it was a true privilege to get to know John. I loved his stories and his passion for life. Above all else, I love the love you had for each other. It was a precious thing to be in the presence of. My heart goes out to you, the girls, and the grandchildren. I am sending you all an abundance of love and praying for you all.
Shawn Torbett
August 19, 2025
My dear friend John:
It was a sincere privilege to be your neighbor in Lexington. Thank you for the many years of friendship and the great conversations. I will never forget the times you and I used that (it seemed like) 1000 lb grass aerator in our yards. Each and every day, you made the lives of the Torbett family that much better. Thank you, God bless you and your wonderful family. Until we meet again my friend... Shawn
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Ki Anderson
August 19, 2025
Mr. John was an amazing man! I became friends with his daughter Caitie in highschool and I'm soooo glad I got to see and chat with Mr. John at her wedding. Rock on Mr. John going to blast a good song for you! Sending Mrs. Pat and the family love .
Kevin & Andrea Thumpston
August 19, 2025
John was a great neighbor! He was always encouraging and loved seeing our kids play in the front yard. We will miss him dearly. Kevin & Andrea Thumpston
Crystal Lynne English
August 19, 2025
There are no words for such a loss & just a horrible disease. I lost my grandmother, mother,& Aunt & was a private caretaker for many with Alzheimer's /Dementia. I know & understand personally & on a professional level how devastating this disease is.
I am a member of same fellowship John belonged to & he was such a beautiful soul in our rooms full of love & hope. My deepest condolences to you Patty & rest of family who he always spoke of with such deep love , respect & was so proud of. I won't forget his last share...he remained so Humble & I'm glad he got Hugs & Love from all that were there that Saturday night.
Prayers & the comfort of his memories & much Love & Light to you all thru this difficult time
Phenie Patterson
August 19, 2025
John had a natural charm and charisma. He was never at a loss for words, always full of life, and such a joy to be with. He will be deeply missed by everyone who knew him. I´ll be turning up "Stairway to Heaven" so we can all sing along with John in our hearts.
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