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John Demarest Obituary

Demarest, John Joseph III DELMAR John Demarest, 56, died peacefully on Friday, July 29, 2022, with his loving family beside him. He was born in Amsterdam, N.Y. on June 23, 1966, to John and Alice Demarest. He graduated from Bethlehem Central High School and earned a swimming scholarship to St. John's University. There, he graduated with a Bachelor of Science degree in computer science and a Master of Business Administration degree in finance. He was the beloved husband of Cynthia Demarest; loving father of Justus Demarest; and brother of Jessica Caines (Jim) and Michael Demarest. He is also survived by his nephews, Connor and Evan; several cousins; and his loyal companion, and beautiful dog, "CC." After battling Goodpasture Syndrome for seven years, John reignited his career as a local government specialist through the New York Department of State. He loved to golf and spend weekends at Hedges Lake in Washington County with family and friends. He enjoyed traveling to Barbados, Europe, and upstate New York, and passing his time at home enjoying movies and activities with his wife and son. John never missed an opportunity to spend time with the people he loved. Funeral services will be held at 3 p.m. on Thursday, August 4, in the Applebee Funeral Home, 403 Kenwood Ave., Delmar. The family will receive visitors at the funeral home from 1 to 3 p.m. prior to the service. Interment will be private. Donations in John's memory may be made to The American Kidney Fund, 11971 Rockville Pike, Suite 300, Rockville, MD, 20852 or at kidneyfund.org. To leave the family an online condolence please visit applebeefuneralhome.com.

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Published by Albany Times Union on Aug. 3, 2022.

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Patricia Ewing

November 20, 2024

Cindy and Justus, I am so sorry to hear about John´s passing. May he rest in peace.
I think of you both often.
Pat Ewing

Lynn Wheland

July 27, 2023

Remembering a special guy!

Ann Perry

August 5, 2022

Cynthia and Justus...please accept my heartfelt condolences. Godspeed to John on his next journey, and I'm keeping you all in my prayers.

Monica Ravreby

August 4, 2022

Dear Demarest Family,
Please accept our sincerest condolences during this difficult time. Sending infinite hugs to you all.

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Star Carter

August 3, 2022

John was wonderful to work with. He was involved in so many great and successful DOS projects in the North Country and he had such a positive impact on many communities. I'm so sorry for his family's loss and he will be missed very much.

Kisha Santiago

August 2, 2022

John was one of the most kind and helpful people at work. I will genuinely miss running into him in the kitchen, starting up a conversation that somehow lead to him coming up with a great solution or way of looking at something. He was always ready to help us think things through, patiently listening and thinking.

My deepest sympathies to the family for the loss of a great person.

Nancy Niblock

August 2, 2022

Dear Justus and family,
I am so sorry for you in the loss of your dad, My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time . May he RIP .

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Applebee Funeral Home

403 Kenwood Ave., Delmar, NY

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3:00 p.m.

Applebee Funeral Home

403 Kenwood Ave., Delmar, NY

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