John Raymond "Jake" Jacobus

John Raymond "Jake" Jacobus obituary, Santa Barbara, CA

John Raymond "Jake" Jacobus

John Jacobus Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by McDermott-Crockett & Associates Mortuary on Jun. 11, 2025.

Publish in a newspaper

John Raymond Jacobus, affectionately known as "Jake" to his friends, passed away on May 25, 2025, in Santa Barbara, California, at the age of 68.
Born on October 26, 1956, in East Orange, New Jersey, John was a devoted son, brother, uncle, and friend. He was predeceased by his father, John Jacobus, and his brother-in-law, James Tassinaro. He is survived by his mother, Constance Jacobus of Tamarac, Florida; his sister, Diane Tassinaro; his nieces, Jennifer Stieber (Husband Douglas) and Kimberly Mertz (Husband Patrick); and his great-niece and great-nephew, Addison and Ethan Stieber - all of Pennsylvania. He will be dearly missed by his family and those fortunate enough to have known him.
While his family called him John, he was known to many as Jake - a man with a deep passion for music, architecture, and travel. Jake grew up in New Jersey, where his love for music took root. A talented multi-instrumentalist, he played clarinet, saxophone, drums and many others. His musical journey took him across Europe as a student where his love of travel began. He later joined the US Navy where he spent time on the USS Bainbridge and even did a tour on a submarine only further deepening his love of traveling the world.
Jake earned a BS in Construction Management and MS in Urban and Regional Planning and spent much of his life doing work he loved as an architect. He lived in Florida and Texas before settling in California - his favorite place - where he spent the last 24 years of his life in Santa Barbara. There, he worked for the city in historical planning until his early retirement due to health concerns.
Though he retired from professional life, Jake never retired from his passions. He remained an enthusiastic lover of music, a student of historical architecture, and a man with an enduring curiosity about the world.
At the family's request, no public funeral or memorial services will be held. A private gathering will be held for immediate family at a later date.
In honor of Jake's life and service, donations may be made in his name to: Santa Barbara Trust for Historical Preservation https://www.sbthp.org/donate

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

How to support John's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor John Jacobus's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign John Jacobus's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?