John Odvar Lee, a cherished father, grandfather, and companion, passed away peacefully in
Murrieta, California, on December 18, 2025, at the age of 94. Born on June 18, 1931, in
Chicago, Illinois, John's life was a testament to his kind and generous spirit.
John's early years were spent in the bustling city of Chicago where he graduated from Calvin Park High School where he was the captain of his swim team . His commitment to his country shone brightly as he proudly served for two years in the US Army. Following his service, he joined the ranks of the Chicago Carpenters' Union, dedicating over 40 years of skillful craftsmanship to numerous projects and structures that stand as a testament to his hard work and dedication. He was a very gifted craftsman with both stonework and flooring. Over the years he renovated many homes and his work was admired by all.
Music was the melody of John's life. As a life-long member of the Bjornson Male Chorus, he found joy and camaraderie. His leadership and passion for music were evident in his over 74 years of service and four decades as the President to the chorus. In his early twenties, he embarked on a memorable tour of Norway with the chorus, an experience that remained close to his heart throughout his life.
Family was the cornerstone of John's existence. He is lovingly remembered by his son Jeffrey Lee and wife Lysa Lee , stepchildren Debbie Martin and Valerie Menconi, and his devoted girlfriend of 40 years, Carol Meland Hoidahl. John's legacy is carried on by his grandchildren Lindsay Lee, Kayla Lee, Brianna Walton, Kevin Martin, Danny Martin, Mark Menconi Jr , Lisa Clark and Nicole Glenn, who will miss his presence and cherish the countless memories they made together.
John's annual trips to Naples, Florida with his son Jeff were a source of much joy and relaxation. The tradition continued with visits to California, leading to his eventual move there in 2020, where he could spend his twilight years basking in the warmth of family.
An outspoken Republican, John never shied away from expressing his beliefs and engaging in the political discourse that shapes our nation. His evenings were often spent savoring a glass of wine with dinner, reflecting on the day's events and enjoying the company of loved ones.
John's sister Esther Kalivek and her husband Jack and their son David preceded him in death, leaving behind memories of times shared and familial bonds that were cherished deeply.