John Joseph McCabe

John Joseph McCabe obituary, Bonita Springs, FL

John Joseph McCabe

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John McCabe Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Shikany's Bonita Funeral Home on Dec. 30, 2025.
John Joseph McCabe, of Bonita Springs passed away on the 26th of November 2025. He was born the son of Irish immigrants in New York on September 19th, 1939. John graduated from Power Memorial High School in 1957 and worked his way through Manhattan College, earning a degree in Physics in 1962. On August 27th, 1960, John married Diana Maria Manno in Manhattan NY.

He spent his career in the United States defense industry working at Westinghouse, the Rome Air Development Center, and the Grumman Aerospace Corporation. He retired from Northrop Grumman in 1998 as an Advanced Airborne Systems Manager.

A technical career as an engineering manager belied John's true character as someone devoted to his family, his Phi Kappa Theta fraternity brothers, and friendships kept since childhood. In September of 2005 John and Diana made their move from Asharoken New York to Bonita Springs Florida where they became active members of the Pelican Landing Community and their Church.

Throughout John's life, he and Diana volunteered in their local community and traveled the country to be present in their grandchildren's lives. They also hosted outrageous parties. Family and friends said they lived by a concept, coined by Diana, called "unlimited fun!"

John McCabe will always be remembered as someone who treasured a good time, great adventures to exotic locations, family holidays, and, most importantly, maintaining old friendships while continuing to make new ones.

He was the last of his generation, being predeceased by brothers James and Patrick and sister Margaret. He is survived by his wife of 65 years, Diana, and by his four children, Patrick (Maggie Uhrich), Frances (Cornelius Peeples), John Jr., and Brian (Jeannie née Odin) as well as his five grandchildren, Sophia, Connor, Fiona, John Scott, and Annabelle, along with many beloved nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, please consider doing something useful or donating to the charity of your choice. This would be John's desire.

A celebration of John's life we be held at 11:00 AM on January 17th, 2026 at Our Lady of Light Catholic Community 19680 Cypress View Dr., Fort Myers, FL.

For those unable to attend in person, the Mass will be livestreamed at https://facebook.com/events/s/mass-of-christian-burial-for-j/661036690332995/

To sign his guest register or to leave online condolences please visit www.ShikanyFuneralHome.com

Arrangements are being handled by Shikany's Bonita Funeral Home Family Owned and Operated Since 1978.

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Upcoming Events

Jan

17

Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 a.m.

Our Lady of Light Catholic Community

19680 Cypress View Dr., Ft. Myers, FL 33967

Send Flowers

Services provided by

Shikany's Bonita Funeral Home