John R. Payne Jr

John R. Payne Jr obituary, Port Reading, NJ

John R. Payne Jr

John Payne Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Apyre National Cremation Services - Port Reading on Apr. 5, 2025.

Publish in a newspaper

It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of John (Jay) Payne Jr. on March 27, 2025 at the age of 68. Surrounded by his family, he peacefully passed away at his home in Whiting, NJ from Alzheimer's disease. John was a devoted family man and an elder in the local congregation of Jehovah's Witnesses. For almost 30 years, he owned and managed his landscaping business, servicing commercial and residential properties. John often volunteered his landscaping services for houses of worship. He left behind a legacy of kindness, humor, and dedication.Born on May 31, 1956 in Lakewood, NJ, John is survived by his spouse, Maria Payne, daughters, Natalia Payne, Tatiana Payne, Juliana Dorofy, and son-in-law Phillip Dorofy, sisters Delores Payne and Gwen White, brothers Alvin Payne, Reginald Payne, George Payne, and Eugene Payne, and beloved brother-in-laws, sister-in-laws, a mother-in-law, nephews, nieces, and extended family.John was known for his big smile and mild and friendly spirit which made it easy for him to naturally bond with others and make them feel comfortable. He was hard-working, generous, and happy to help anyone in need without complaining. He was an avid fan of the Jets, Mets, and Knicks (although he was happily married to an Eagles/Phillies fan for 47 years) and a gifted player of many sports. John also had a host of loving friends, as a result of his faith and connections to his international family. Despite fading memory and energy, he remained gentle, grateful, and expressed his love for Jehovah God and others.His memorial service will be held on Saturday, April 26, 2025 at 2 pm at the Kingdom Hall of Jehovah's Witnesses on 1115 W. Whitty Road in Toms River, NJ 08755.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

How to support John's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor John Payne's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign John Payne's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?