Monica M. Heller

Monica M. Heller obituary, Simi Valley, CA

Monica M. Heller

Monica Heller Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Reardon Simi Valley Funeral Home - Simi Valley on Oct. 1, 2025.

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Monica M. Heller, born on April 29, 1933, in Norwich, England, passed away peacefully in Simi Valley, California, on January 2, 2025, at the age of 91. A beloved member of her family and community, Monica's life was a tapestry woven with love, devotion, and cherished memories that will forever remain in the hearts of those who knew her.
Monica was the devoted wife of the late Edward Heller, with whom she shared a profound partnership filled with affection and mutual support. Together, they nurtured a family that blossomed under their care. Monica was also preceded in death by her precious daughter, Debra Heller. Their absence leaves a profound void, yet their legacy lives on through the love and strength they imparted.
Monica is survived by her loving children, Steve Heller and his wife Barre, and Frank Heller along with his wife Marlo. She took great joy in her role as a grandmother, doting on her grandchildren, who include Scott Heller and his wife Tina, Matthew Heller and his wife Yazmine, Ryan Heller, Anthony Heller, Andrew Heller and his fiance Stephanie Olivos, and Tara Tatangelo. Each of them carries a piece of her spirit, embodying the values and love she instilled in them.
Also left to cherish her memory is her sister-in-law, Jean Balaam, who witnessed the strength and grace that defined Monicas life. Monica's family roots extend back to her late brother, Edward Balaam, and her late sister, Valerie Balaam, as well as her late parents, Walter and Nettie Balaam. Their bonds shaped Monica's journey, deeply influencing her character and the warmth she shared with others.
A graveside service to honor Monica's life will be held on January 10, 2025, at Oakwood Memorial Park in Los Angeles, California. Family and friends will gather to pay tribute to a remarkable woman whose kindness, wisdom, and unwavering love enriched the lives of all who knew her.
As we remember Monica M. Heller, let us celebrate her enduring spirit, the love she shared, and her profound impact on her family and friends. She will be profoundly missed but never forgotten.
In lieu of flowers please make a donation to ASPCA in Monicas name
Graveside Service
Friday, January 10th, 2025
10:00 am
22601 Lassen Street,
Los Angeles CA 91311 To plant a beautiful memorial tree in memory of Monica, please visit our Tree Store.

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