Jon O. Miner

March 28, 2025: Jon is predeceased by his father, Roger Miner; step-father, Lawrence Wright; step sister, Roberta Conley; step-brother, Lewis Wright. He is survived by his wife of 35 years, Angela (Molinelli) Miner; children, David (Kaitlyn) Miner & Katy (Alex) Behlok; grandson, Grayson James Miner; mother, Donna Wright; siblings, Jeff (Barb) Miner & Dan (Joanne) Miner; step-mother, Joan Miner; step-brothers & step-sisters, Larry (Joanne) Wright, Lorrie Wright, Roxanne (Pat) Walker, Shelly Steen, Becky Steen; nieces, nephews, cousins & dear friends.
Jon's life story will be shared during his visitation at the funeral home, 1411 Vintage Lane (Between 390 & Long Pond Rd.), Wednesday, April 2nd, 2-4 & 6-8 PM. His funeral service will be celebrated, Thursday, April 3rd, 10AM at the funeral home. Immediately following, Jon will be laid to rest in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Journey Home, 994 Long Pond Rd., Rochester, NY 14626 in Jon's memory. Special thanks to Interlakes Oncology & URMC Home Hospice Care.
Remembering Jon
Jon O. Miner's life was one that was built on love, laughter, and an unwavering devotion to his family, friends, and passions. To know Jon was to love him, a sentiment that anyone who crossed his path could easily agree with. He had a way of making everyone feel welcome, cherished, and appreciated, no matter the occasion. Whether he was surrounded by family, friends, or coworkers, Jon's presence was magnetic, and his sense of humor infectious.
Born on July 24, 1965, to Roger Miner and Donna Wright, Jon grew up with a solid foundation of love and support, later being guided by his stepmother, Joan, and stepfather, Andy. His upbringing shaped him into the patient, kind, and compassionate person everyone came to know. His heart was as big as his personality, and his kindness was matched only by his incredible sense of humor, which could light up any room. Jon's wit and infectious laugh made him the life of any gathering, and he could always be counted on for a good time.
Family was the center of Jon's world. In 1989, he married his best friend, Angela, and together they created a beautiful life. Their love story was built on mutual respect, admiration, and deep affection, which only grew stronger over time. Together, they raised two wonderful children, David and Katy, with Jon always leading by example. He was a devoted husband, a proud father, and later, an even prouder grandfather. His children and grandchildren meant everything to him, and nothing made him happier than spending quality time with them.
Jon's love for sports, particularly the Buffalo Bills, was legendary. He was a passionate fan who never missed a game and proudly held season tickets for five years. Whether he was braving freezing temperatures at a game or relaxing at home, Jon took game day seriously, planning his meals and outfits with the precision of a coach. The highs of a Bills win and the camaraderie shared with fellow fans were some of Jon's greatest joys. His love for sports didn't stop there; Jon was an athlete in his own right. As a child, he loved playing baseball, and as an adult, he was an avid golfer. The course was his happy place, especially when he was out there with his son, David, or when he joined his wife Angela for a fun round in their golf league. No matter the weather, Jon was always ready to "hit 'em straight – long and fair" and enjoy a hot dog on the turn or a good meal afterward at a local restaurant.
Jon's love of food was just as strong as his passion for sports. He was known for his amazing culinary skills, especially his famous chili and ribs, which he perfected over the years. There was nothing Jon loved more than cooking up a feast on the grill, whether it was steaks, hot dogs, or whatever else he could throw on for friends and family. Dessert was always something special, as Jon had a sweet tooth that couldn't be ignored. His love for chocolate chip cookie dough ice cream was well-known, and he also enjoyed making homemade vanilla ice cream that his dad taught him how to make. His joy in food wasn't just in eating, but in sharing meals with those he loved most.
Jon's pets were also a huge part of his life. He was a proud "pawrent" to Budweiser and Molson, and a proud grand "pawrent" to Genny, Stella, and Tito. His love for his pets was evident in the way he treated them, always showering them with affection and care, just as he did with everyone around him.
Throughout his career, Jon was known for his dedication and hard work. He held several leadership roles in the foodservice industry and was loved and respected in his professional life, just as much as in his personal life. He built lasting friendships wherever he went, with close relationships with his neighbors and friends. Jon friends and family always knew they could count on him to offer a helping hand or just be there to support them.
Jon's life wasn't just about work and family – he also knew how to have fun. He played guitar and was once in a band. He was also known as "sports dad" to David and Katy, showing up at every game, competition, and recital with a smile and support. His family vacations to Myrtle Beach and Virginia Beach were an annual tradition, where he created lasting memories with his loved ones, and these trips became a highlight of every year. Jon loved reality TV shows as well as watching different TV series with his wife, a fun way for him to unwind.
A phrase that summed up Jon's approach to life and parenting was, "Did you try your best? That's all I ever ask of you". He believed in giving his all, whether at work, in sports, or in his personal life, and he instilled this value in his children. His love, patience, and dedication to his family will forever be remembered.
Jon's legacy lives on in the hearts of those who loved him. His humor, kindness, and zest for life will never be forgotten, and his memory will continue to shine brightly through the lives of his family and friends. He was more than just a husband, father, and friend – he was a shining light to all who knew him. Jon O. Miner will always remain in our hearts, forever cherished and never forgotten.
Jon, JonO, Big J, Jon Miner.
A loving husband, dad, a son, a brother, an uncle, and most recently a grandpa to baby Grayson.
To us, Jon was the best family man (a wrestling fan, all around sports fan, golfing, the best dish washing buddy anyone could have, dance dad, and dog dad + grand dad- I remember he would pack the whole wrestling ring and wrestlers when we went on family vacations for David, a dance dad when he took to the stage, and the dog dad to Budweiser, Molson, Grand Dad to Tito, Genny and Stella- and our boys Wally and Vinny loved him too. Let's just be honest hear He's our food guy (best rib maker, shlobster maker, a grill master (aka Grill father) for the 3rd of July Macintosh parties and for that matter all parties, he made the best Big J drinks, and can make Chili like no one else), a golf pro (we considered Jon the golf league president and when it came to the 9 and dines he made sure to pull all of the Macintosh neighbors and family together to have a night of fun and laughs) – thank you Paul and Claudia for having us. and he definitely was the biggest Bills fan we know. Go Bills!
For many years, we took family vacations to Myrtle Beach since the kids were still wearing arm floats- cousin John too. We drove to our destinations, with a must stop in PA park n ride (where a helicopter landed and oh my gosh it was crazy! definitely a unique experience).
Might I add that in Jon Miner's car (usually Angela and Katy). There was always Texas Hold'em game to play while driving. lol
MB Memories:
When we first started going to MB (20+ yrs ago). We started at the infamous Chicora 11G, where we had a pool just outside our door. We would spend mornings on the porch drinking coffee to plan out our days. Of course, there was always golf for the boys - it started as 2 days of golf and as the kids got older it became an easy 3 or 4 days. It was always a competition between the Young Guns and Old Timers. We would laugh about the stories the happened at the course – every day and still today.
As the kids got older we started to expand our search for other resorts. Barefoot Landing, Sheraton@Broadway, oh and one place where it was all woods (palmettos everywhere) needless to say, that was a one a done place. Where there is water there are water bugs (aka Palmettos). Like, Chucks Steakhouse – flying around crawling everywhere. We ran out like we lived in NY. Oh and famous Fin McCools where Larry and I were meeting back up with Jon/Ang and the rest of the clan after a beach visit – a long walk back and a much needed drink. Captain George's Buffet restaurant- a time where Jon low balled David's age to get a cheaper price and David called him out and said "Dad, I'm not 8, I'm 10" while the server was at the table. Hahaha.. so busted!
In all of our road travels we had many staples to stop at: a favorite of Jon's on the road trip was Cracker Barrel (pecan pancakes) wait time was usually longer than we wanted so we would find another pancakes place- short pump VA – the Aloft where we stop for an overnight and made our way to Fire Birds restaurant.
After many years visiting MB, we visited Virginia. Jon and Angela introduced us to Sand Bridge Beach. A place where Jon, Angela, and the kids visited before with grandpa Roger and grandma Joan: what a beautiful and peaceful place.
A few years ago, the four of us (Jon, Angela, Larry, and me) took a trip to Boston, we made up our own tour- we walked a lot, took in a duck tour a Sox game by a rickshaw and we went to the best Seafood restaurant ever. Of course, Jon's recommendation – he knew the best places to eat.
Every Halloween was a thing; the Jon and Angela duo showed up year after year in big way. From Colonial Sanders, to Mr. Monopoly, to Thing 1 and thing 2, Queen and King of hearts and most recently Mr Clean Guy. Most can be viewed in the picture collage here.
Golf:
Golf was his game! From the Kodak tours with his brother in laws (Anthony and Larry), son David, and nephew John to MB to Pinewood, to Deerfield CC and many other places in between. He could teach anyone how to golf (from the stance, to the swing, to the right club to use). And always the first one to celebrate and make sure you tweak one more thing. He just loved golf!
Buffalo Bills Games:
Going to games was the best way to celebrate with family and friends. From the table setup to everyone bringing a dish to pass. Of course, enduring the super cold games were the most fun and then a few we even had an 70-80 degree game early in the season. A bonus and Go Bills.
The cars:
Let's talk about the Ford he had: he put Katy behind the wheel and almost crashed it.
Rides in the Corvette (aka the Barbie Car)- Jon, Angela, the kids would take rides and just cruise around. He just loved that car.
Now, I'd like reflect on a few memories from Jon's mom Donna, brother's Danny and Jeffrey and then share loving reflections and memories by David, Katy, and Angela.
Grams Donna (Jon's mom):
• Jon was always active in many things including football, basketball, baseball; he played guitar in a band and was class president along with being an honor student
• In Scouts, Jon was voted "camper of the week" by his peers and, therefore, got an extra week of free camping
• Jon worked at a Men's clothing store called Kennedy Brother's in Medina and even did some modeling.
Danny's memories:
• When we were kids growing up, I would come home drunk and my baby brother would get me a cold compress and a bucket. He would babysit me all night
• August 21 2014 Deerfield Country Club, my nephew David, my brother Jon and myself played golf. I hit a 3 hybrid 189 yards for my second hole in one in my life. Jon was more excited than I was. Boy did we celebrate
• Jon was my best man. Not once, not twice, but three times. At my final wedding Jon said,"that's it, I'm not doing this again! That's what my baby brother meant to me, he was my best friend
Jeffrey's memories:
• At 14 years old, Jon was one of the groomsmen in Jeff & Barb's wedding
• Jon ( along with Dan) put popcorn and a few other small things down the opening of Jeff's tuba to prevent him from playing
• At a meat packing place in Indiana, young Jon shot a cork gun towards a cow at the same time his Uncle Bud shot a real gun. Jon thought he actually hit the cow and ran off scared.
David:
To be honest I don't even know how to begin writing this, but here goes nothing. My dad (Jon) was an amazing husband, father, grandpa and the best dog dad to Budweiser and Molson and dog grandpa to his fur grandson Tito! I mean he was the definition of a family man, anything we needed/wanted he provided for us. The unbelievable amount of memories we have from our children years to teen years to adult years are unmatched. I Remember when we first got Budweiser and surprised mom and she didn't believe he was ours! Or remember when I almost drove the golf cart into the bunker in Myrtle? Or how about the snow game a few years back against the colts when we had to push the car out of the lot! I'll tell you I'm still trying to master the famous Big J drinks, where you would always tell us you guys were a little happy last night. Those were just a few special moments to me that stuck out. But I will say one thing I am looking forward to is teaching baby Grayson aka juggle head to play golf just like you taught me. We had a lot of specials bonds but that was the best! Here is my promise to you dad, I promise to be the best father I possibly can be to Grayson just like you were to me I know I have some big shoes to fill on that one, I will always take care and protect Mom and Phil aka Katy no matter what and I promise I will honor you each and everyday big guy. Oh and I promise to keep on beating uncle Larry in golf just like you taught me! Rest easy big man. I love you dad!
Katy:
To Jon's daughter, who he nicknamed birdie and angel, he was more than just a dad. He was her life lesson teacher and her best friend. Every morning when Katy was growing up, her dad would be bubbly in the morning making her lunches packed with 2 Dove chocolates while singing country music. She can still hear him singing "baby lock them doors and turn the lights down low" on repeat. Jon and Katy had the opportunity to work together one summer at Deerfield Country Club where she'd make her dad burgers and hot dogs, or he'd ask for a soda or candy bar, and Jon would say "don't tell your mom". As Katy was growing up as a dancer, Jon participated in the "dad dance" where he got to show off his best moves to the party rock anthem. At Katy's wedding, there was no question asked about which song they would dance to for their father daughter dance, "My Wish" by the Rascal Flatts. Jon sang and meant every word he said "my wish for you is that this life becomes all that you want it to, your dreams stay big, worries stay small, you never need to carry more than you can hold". She holds those words close to her heart and lives by the meaning of them that Jon passed along to her. The smiles from ear to ear as they danced are moments she will never forget. Katy and Jon were best friends, from teasing each other,teaching her life lessons to kicking her butt in the game of Sorry, Jon always knew the right thing to say and do to be there and support his Angel. Her dad's love will stay with her forever.
Angela:
It's with a heavy heart, but also with a great deal of love, that we are here to celebrate the life of Jon. Jon was the love of my life, my soulmate, my confidant, my rock and most of all an amazing father to our children, that he loved more than life itself.
To know Jon is to love him he touched the hearts of so many whether he knew you through family, our neighborhood, one of the kid's sporting events, work, or a longtime friend. Wherever we went, he always ran into someone he knew and you could clearly see the impact that he had on every person he met.
I am so grateful for the precious time we had together we shared so many beautiful memories from our first date to our wedding day to the birth of our children to seeing both of our children get married to the birth of our first grandson. The life we made together and the impact you had on us taught us the true meaning of love, compassion and resilience.
So, for now as you taught me, I know you will be on my shoulder saying keep your knees bent, head down, arms straight and swing back, nice and smooth. In response, you will hear my words of endearment because my shot was perfect.
You will live on in the hearts of everyone who knew you and as the inscription says on our wedding rings "Forever Love You". Until we meet again, rest in peace
One more thing. Please join me 3, 2, 1 GO BILLS
Public Viewing:
Wednesday, April 2, 2025
2:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Bartolomeo & Perotto Funeral Home, Inc.
1411 Vintage Lane
Rochester, NY 14626
Public Viewing:
Wednesday, April 2, 2025
6:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Bartolomeo & Perotto Funeral Home, Inc.
1411 Vintage Lane
Rochester, NY 14626
Funeral Service:
Thursday, April 3, 2025
10:00 am - 11:00 am
Bartolomeo & Perotto Funeral Home, Inc.
1411 Vintage Lane
Rochester, NY 14626