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Joseph Devlin Obituary

Joseph Patrick Devlin
After a lengthy illness, Joseph "Joe" Patrick Devlin, a longtime educator in Santa Rosa City Schools, passed away March 30, 2025 at his home in Santa Rosa at the age of eighty. He was born November 6, 1944 in Weehawken, New Jersey. As the son of an Irish father, he had "an abiding sense of tragedy," but as the son of an Italian mother, he learned "the infinite passion of life." These two principles guided his life, his relationships and his journey along the way.
Joe was a complex, interesting man, known for his endless wit, compassionate humanity and keen intelligence. The patriarch of his family, he delighted in all things cinema, an excellent book, animals of every kind, classic television comedies, world cuisines and ice cold martinis; he especially treasured time spent with devoted loved ones, revered friends, valued colleagues, and doting students. An inspirational, influential teacher for forty years, Mr. Devlin shared his avidity for literature and movies in each of the English and Film Study classes he taught; he positively impacted those fortunate to be in his classroom. He was an ardent champion of the underdog and the outcast, whether rooting for a disenfranchised community, for those who were seen as eccentric outliers or for a perennial unsuccessful sports team.
Joe cast himself in the greatest love story when he married Pamela Lind Peschken Devlin thirty-eight years ago; they found one another after having been single parents for years prior, blending their two families to create a warm home. He was the Yin to her Yang; they enjoyed a rich and robust relationship: sharing travel adventures; a dedication to teaching and learning; watching myriad quality motion pictures; listening to lectures by authors, filmmakers, or political figures; and enjoying a delicious meal in either low or fine dining restaurants. But their finest joy was evenings spent around their own dinner table with family and/or friends, either celebrating holidays and special occasions, or simply reveling in the pleasure of being together.
In addition to his wife Pam, Joe's extended family includes his daughter Rachel Devlin-Tubbs and husband Jeff Tubbs, sons Mica Peschken and Joe Devlin plus his faithful dog Lola. In addition, he was cherished by nine grandchildren and two great grandchildren as well as many dear relatives in each of their families.
The family is forever grateful to those who came from near and far to visit Joe throughout his final year and to those Hospice and home caregivers, who tended to him during this time.
A private gathering to commemorate him will be held next month. If you would like to make a donation in Joe's memory, please consider giving to one of these three organizations: The American Film Institute, Smile Train or The Nature Conservancy.
To our beloved Joe: "May flights of angels sing thee to thy rest."

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Press Democrat on Apr. 13, 2025.

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Polly Keintz

May 25, 2025

Joe you are so loved. So many people yesterday honoring you was just amazing. You touched so many people. Miss and love you.

Sonja Bedford

May 25, 2025

Joe, you would have loved seeing all the people who gathered yesterday to remember and love you. Lots of martinis and lemon drops going down. We spread the light!

Steve mills

May 24, 2025

Joe was my teacher and friend since the early seventies... a heck of a nice guy, he will be terribly missed...

Ron & Lydia Chavez

May 1, 2025

Sending our condolences for the heartbreaking loss of Joe. We know how beloved he was and how he will be missed.

Andrew Jowers

April 25, 2025

I first really met Joe years ago when he invited me over for martinis with Kurt Kettenburg, and honestly, I was nervous, because I knew this was a test/initiation, they were both more experienced teachers, more in tune with the nuances of gin, better and more fluent conversationalists, and had been pals for decades. On the kitchen counter was a neon-light martini glass.

Of course, they were both gentlemen, funny, wise and generous - the next day at school I gave them both a photo of dozens of people, nude, bowing down before a huge oak tree, on which I superimposed a martini glass, with the caption, `I came, I saw, I bowed down´ - and it proved the start of a real friendship, which I have always treasured. Pam was my first principal and made me a better teacher; Joe made her laugh every day, and made me laugh every time I saw him. They hosted my wife and me many evenings over the years, memorable dinners of great food and great company, and I miss those times dearly. Thank you, Joe.

Andrew Jowers

April 25, 2025

DENISE LOCKE WENDERROTH

April 23, 2025

I KNEW JOE HIS SON AND GRADUATED WITH MY CONDOLENCES TO U JOE. YOUR DAD WAS A GREAT TEACHER AND ADVISOR.

DENISE LOCKE- WENDEROTH

April 23, 2025

i was a student of Mr. Devln at piner high school 86-87 he was very great teacher. he always accidentlly would call me dennis though its denise.. personal joke but he got it right wow, im really gonna miss him. best teacher i had and the teacher who told me i can do it an be anything long as i put it to use in my future... sincerly DENISE (LOCKE) - Wenderoth class of 87 piner high

Michael Adams

April 20, 2025

THE PHILOSOPHERS AND THE FISHERMAN
The philosophers and fishermen
The teachers and the Boss
Together for a time
So their friendship won´t be lost

Caring for the One´s who need
Support from those who care
Planning for the days to come
For all of them to share

Need of what does come today
It really doesn´t matter
Together is the purpose
For all of them to gather

With peaceful Love and caring
They´ll slowly drift away
To where they´ll be tomorrow
And love another day

By: Michael Adams June 2022
Reunion in Victoria, BC
Joe and Pam, Mike, Verne,
Ron, Bill and Kathy

Nancy Mahr

April 18, 2025

My condolences to Joe's family and friends. I did not know Joe, but have heard about him from Maureen, my neighbor. He was certainly an outstanding person.

Bettina Bourdens

April 14, 2025

Mr Devlin´s class was one of the best! I can visualize it with clarity, see my desk & who sat by me @ Piner High. Thank you Mr Devin.

Jennifer Harrison

April 14, 2025

I´ll always remember my time in Mr Devlin´ class @Piner years ago. He encouraged my writing, and I´ll always remember the sign he had up in our classroom: CARPE DIEM
God Bless Mr Devlin.

Jennifer , former student

Rocky Buzzini

April 14, 2025

I had the absolute pleasure of having Joe Devlin at Montgomery High ...he helped me through difficult years... .

Keith Bailey

April 14, 2025

Mr. Devlin was my swimming coach at Montgomery about 50 years ago. He was always kind and inspirational. He graciously gave his time to coach and support the swim team. I have fond memories of those days.

Kathy & Lynn Anderson

April 13, 2025

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Thankfully you have a lifetime of heartfelt memories, stories, experiences, friends, family and his students that he shared his life with. He was loved. Stay strong cousin. Love from Kathy & Lynn.

D Smith

April 13, 2025

Mr Devlin was my teacher nearly 40 years ago. Things I still remember: He hated 7the graders; "alot" was a piece of land; he read two of my papers in class, even though I was an inconsistent student. While I dropped out of SRHS soon after, I ended up a college English teacher. Maybe he would have enjoyed the irony.

Michael Adams

April 13, 2025

"What was Joe going to say?" His way of introducing his declining memory to his oldest friends from his childhood, was with humor. Thank you Joe for yet another lesson in life.

Polly Keintz

April 13, 2025

Joe, you are our dearest and favorite brother-in-law. Also, Nick and Ashley's favorite uncle. You have such a special place in our hearts. Mike and I love you and will miss you so. Thank you for loving Pam and Mica and making them a part of a wonderful family. Our hearts are truly broken.

Terry Swehla

April 13, 2025

A stand up human, fellow educator and devoted man!
Much to be missed!

Sonja Bedford

April 13, 2025

Ah Joe, I stepped i to your job at Santa Rosa High School mid-term when you transferred to Piner High to begin developing a small school community on campus with fellow enlightened teachers - Dick Latimer being a leading light. Needless to say, your shoes were big ones to fill. That was in 1982. Toward the end of that decade, you joined a trip I led to Cherkasy, Ukraine where we were beginning to establish Sister City relationships. That trip of ten adults and ten students was one of the highlights of my life and I think yours. You formed brotherly relationships with travel buddies and immersed yourself in Ukrainian culture. I know how deeply you loved the people. The following year you and Pam hosted Ukrainians on a reciprocal Sister City trip. In the years afterward we relived some outstanding memories in our conversations. I hold you in my heart Joe where your shared spirit and love live forever.
Oh, and my favorite drink is also a vodka martini "shaken not stirred" until a thin layer of ice appears on top. To you my Bonnie Lad!!

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