Joseph Goldstein

Joseph H. Goldstein, 39, died on Friday February 7, 2025 at their home in Edison surrounded by their loving family.
Joe is survived by their adoring wife of 13 years, Amy, their two children, Elizabeth and Penelope; their parents Christine McNicholas (Kenneth Snyder) and Matthew Goldstein (Mary Sharkey); their siblings, Richard Goldstein, Ann Peters (Douglas Peters), Marlaina Pfister (Thomas Pfister), and Erin Snyder; and their Grandpa, Howard McNicholas as well as 5 nieces and nephews, countless other family members, and friends. They are predeceased by grandparents, Irving and Mary Goldstein and Jeanette McNicholas.
Joe was a devoted and loving partner and father, always able to make their girls laugh. They were an amazing musician, Dungeon Master extraordinaire, lover of all things horror and a lifelong fan of the NY Red Bulls, co-hosting the team's podcast, Seeing Red. Joe's love of music started at a young age and served them well through the years, winning over Amy's heart in song some 20 years ago and over and over again throughout their relationship. Joe came out as non-binary later in life, finding themselves during the COVID-19 lockdown. Joe lived their remaining days as their true self, with love and acceptance from their family and friends, their children being their biggest supporters and allies.
In September 2023 Joe was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer. They gave it their all, endured several surgeries, radiation and chemotherapy. Joe truly kicked butt for as long as they could. Joe was a supportive friend, always willing to lend a listening ear or offer advice. The love and support from friends and family over the past year and a half was a true testament to just how wonderful a person Joe was. They were loved by so many.
As Joe requested, the family will be planning a celebration of life, with details to follow at a later date. Joe requested, in lieu of flowers, donations be made to the Trevor Project or Planned Parenthood.