Joseph D. "Joe" Ray

Joseph D. "Joe" Ray obituary

Joseph D. "Joe" Ray

Joseph Ray Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Inman Ward Funeral Home and Crematory of Tabor City, LLC. on Jul. 14, 2025.

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Tabor City, NC

Joseph D. "Joe" Ray, 92, of Tabor City, passed away July 13, 2025 in Whiteville, NC. Born on November 23, 1932 in Columbus County, NC, he was a son of the late Ken and Beaulah (Formyduval) Ray.

Joe was a beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle and friend. A native of Tabor City, NC, there he raised a family and was the proprietor of the Village Barber Shop, the social heart of Tabor City for nearly 50 years.

Joe loved Tabor City and was active in many organizations including the Lions Club (charter member) and Jaycees. He was a member of Tabor City Baptist Church, serving as a Sunday School teacher, choir member, and a Deacon for many years.

Joe will be fondly remembered for his quick wit, sense of humor, and his infallible memory, but most of all for his unwavering love for his family.

Joe was preceded in death by his loving wife, Lodosca "Dot" (Powell) Ray, his daughter, Penni Ray Stocks, and his daughter-in-law, Vicki Tippins Ray. He was also preceded in death by five brothers Kenneth Ray, Elderidge Ray, Faxon Ray, Fred Ray, Franklin Ray and one sister, Annette (Ray) Cartrette.

Joe is survived by his sons, Joseph L. Ray (Karen) of Sunset Beach, NC, and Tracy P. Ray (Tracy B.) of Loris, SC, and grandchildren Alex Ray (Mikki) of Minneapolis, MN, Alston Ray of Portland, OR, Jaclyn, Bryant and Mckinley Ray all of Loris, SC and Bri Hewett of Denver, CO. He is also survived by his brother, Wilbert Ray of Tabor City, NC and numerous nieces and nephews.

A Celebration of Life will be on Thursday, July 17, at 1:00 PM Tabor City Baptist Church, with visitation at 12:00 PM in the sanctuary. A private family graveside service will be held at Myrtle Green Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Lower Cape Fear Hospice & Life Care Center Angel House, 206 Warrior Trail Rd. Whiteville, NC 28472.

Inman Ward Funeral Home is honored to assist the Ray family.

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