Joseph M. "Joe" Reed Jr.

Joseph M. "Joe" Reed Jr. obituary, Vinita, OK

Joseph M. "Joe" Reed Jr.

Joseph Reed Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Burckhalter-Highsmith Funeral and Cremation Service - Vinita on Jan. 27, 2025.

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Joseph M. "Joe" Reed, Jr., 79-year-old lifetime Vinita resident, passed away on Tuesday, January 21, 2025, in a car accident near Galena, Kansas. He was born on July 24, 1945, in Vinita to Joseph Monroe Reed, Sr. and Shirley Geraldine (Bruce) Reed. Joe was a 1964 graduate of Vinita High School. Joe worked as a truck driver most of his life, he was currently a driver for Blue Bell Ice Cream. Joe was a very enthusiastic aviator, pilot of ultra lights, also truly knowledgeable of aviation. He also enjoyed hunting, fishing, auto mechanics, and carpentry. He was a member of Father's House Church in Miami.
He was preceded in death by his wife Barbara (Dawson) Reed in 2019, his parents, brothers, Tom Reed in 2003, and Beau Reed in 2021, and a sister.
The family includes his companion, Cynthia Conrad of Miami, daughter, Jo Ann Reed of San Francisco, sister in law, Mary Sue Reed of Vinita, nephews, Tom Reed, Brian Reed (Nao), John Reed, Barry Reed, and niece, Stephanie McKenzie, numerous other relatives, his cat "Princess", his very good friends and flying buddies, Duncan Gravis, Floyd Luck, Ace Neill, and Jared McClure.
The graveside service will be held at the Fairview Cemetery in Vinita, on Wednesday, January 29, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. with Pastor Charles Clevenger officiating. Online condolences may be made at www.highsmithfh.com or on the funeral home Facebook page. Arrangements are in the care of the Burckhalter-Highsmith Funeral and Cremation Services of Vinita. "Vinita's only locally owned and operated funeral home."
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January 28, 2025

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January 28, 2025

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January 27, 2025

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Marty Kilgore

January 28, 2025

When Joe came to work to Blue Bell as a driver, we not only get a great driver, but get got a wonderful family member. He was loved by all his co-workers. He was personally an inspiration to me. I admired his amazing work ethic & his amazing spirit. He was truly one of a kind. I wish there were many more people like him, if so then this world would be a better place. I will miss our conversation that we had every time I saw him in the parking lot. Every time I saw him in the lot, I intentionally went to talk to him because those brief talks always uplifted me. I looked forward to those opportunities. Again, there are not too many people that have that type of positive of impact on others, but Joe sure was one of them. Heaven sure got a good one!

He will greatly missed by his Blue Bell Family!

Perry Wiggin

January 28, 2025

Joe and I had ultralight accidents on the same day 40 years ago, he broke his hand and I broke both legs, we were at St Francis Hospital in Tulsa, he would come visit me with all his pins sticking out hand and wrist.
I already miss u
RIP

Hank Canup

January 27, 2025

RIP Joe. You were always entertaining to be around back in the heyday of flying ultralights around Oklahoma. You will be missed. Hank Canup

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