Joseph J. Tompkins

Joseph J. Tompkins obituary, Melrose, MA

Joseph J. Tompkins

Joseph Tompkins Obituary

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Joseph J. Tompkins, resident of Melrose, passed away unexpectedly on Friday, March 11, 2022. He was 70 years old. Born in Boston on May 25, 1951, Joe is one of five children of the late Raymond C. and Josephine (Iannillo) Tompkins. He grew up in Charlestown and Chelsea. He loved playing highschool football and was an excellent receiver. When he turned eighteen Joe enlisted in the United States Army and was an Airborne Ranger in the 75th Ranger Regiment serving in the Vietnam War. He was honorably discharged in 1971 and was a proud veteran. Upon his return stateside, Joe first started working as a truck driver at East Point Trucking Co. Eventually he started his own company, the J. Joseph Trucking Company. He mainly made trips up and down the eastern seaboard and was exceptionally proud of the company he built. Joe also worked as and was a highly regarded Wedding Photographer and ran a small Christmas Tree lot for 40 years. Joe loved his family, was proud of all their accomplishments, and relished time with all of them. He was a prankster at heart and took great pride in teasing his children, grandchildren, and other family and friends. Joe, also known as the Dog Whisperer, had a great love for animals and was the proud owner of his black lab Coop. He enjoyed playing poker with his friends, gardening, growing giant sunflowers, fishing with his grandchildren, golfing, and family vacations at the lake. Joe's love for his family, teasing nature, and love for life will be missed by all. Joe was the beloved husband of Judy N. (Sampson) Tompkins with whom he shared 44 years of marriage. Devoted step-father of Keith Denehy and his wife Heather of N. Reading, and Kimberly Guay and her husband Stephen of Wakefield. Dear brother of Diana Craven, Joanne Tompkins, the late Raymond Tompkins, and his late twin Julie Laudenslager, step-siblings Marietta Mondello, and the late Joey Pagliuca. Cherished grandfather of Alexandra, Madison, and Hannah Guay, and Nisa, Kate, and Jack Denehy. Relatives and friends are kindly invited to gather during visiting hours at Robinson Funeral Home, 809 Main St., Melrose on Saturday, March 19 from 2-5pm. Military Honors will be presented at 4:45pm. A collation will be held following the Visitation at 5:30pm at Anthony's of Malden, 105 Canal St., Malden. In lieu of flowers, donations in Joe's memory may be made to Wounded Warrior Project.

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December 28, 2022

Sissy Tildsley posted to the memorial.

March 19, 2022

Nicole Spezzaferri posted to the memorial.

March 17, 2022

Debra Laudenslager posted to the memorial.

Sissy Tildsley

December 28, 2022

My sweat Joe, I just found this obituary and came to tears. I have wonderful memories of you in our early years. My condolences to your family. Joe was my safe place in life. I know your with julie now. It gives me peace knowing your with your parents as well. Till me meet again RIP love you to the moon and back. Your sissy!

Nicole Spezzaferri

March 19, 2022

To Kim, Alex, Judy, and rest of Family and Relatives of Joseph Tompkins, I am very sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Debra Laudenslager

March 17, 2022

I'm so sorry for your loss,sending prayers for everyone.. Joey you were the life of the party....May you rest in peace....Thank you for your service...Love you Tom and Debbie Laudenslager

jack hubner

March 17, 2022

to the tompkins family im so sad . i was blessed to have joey as my freind he loved his family with all his heart. my condolence to the family. we will never forget you buddy rip

Pam Ward

March 16, 2022

Judy I am so sorry that this has happened 2 u. I'm always here 4 u whenever u need me. My heart breaks 4 u..luv u koko ❤

Nisa Denehy

March 16, 2022

May I see you in my dreams until we meet again grandpa. Love you forever and always

Terry Robinson

March 16, 2022

Our sincere condolences from the entire Robinson Family, Derry New Hampshire

Paul Sweeney

March 15, 2022

May you rest in peace Joseph..you were truly a great guy...will always remember the good times at the Mill Hill club...My condolences to Judy and the Tompkins family.

Tompkins Judy Judy

March 15, 2022

Love you always & will miss you. Too soon

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