Judy Arbogast

Judy Arbogast, a loving mother, grams, great-grams, sister, aunt, and friend, passed away peacefully in her sleep on October 22, 2025. Born on July 28, 1941, in Benton Harbor, Michigan, Judy was the cherished daughter of Harold and Jeanette (Gould) Lewis. She spent her childhood between Millburg, Michigan, and Kodiak Island, Alaska, two very different places that filled her youth with adventure, curiosity, and a love for people and stories that would stay with her for life.

Judy's life was defined by her heart for others. A true caregiver, she was always ready to help anyone in need. She would drop everything, pack a bag, and go wherever she was needed. Whether it was to care for a family member, a friend, or even someone's beloved pet. Her love had no boundaries, and her presence brought comfort, laughter, and peace to those lucky enough to know her.

She had an incredible gift for conversation. Judy could make instant friends with anyone who had the time to sit and talk. She was a wonderful storyteller, remembering every detail and bringing each moment to life. She was also an extraordinary listener, genuinely caring about what mattered to you. She offered a safe place to share your joys and your troubles, and when you needed to hear the truth, she wasn't afraid to tell it with love and honesty that only someone who truly cared could offer.

Judy loved history and facts, always curious and eager to learn. Judy found joy in life's simple pleasures, watching NASCAR, enjoying a Snickers bar, a cold Coke, late night talks and laughs with her grandsons and spending time with family. She was always ready for an adventure; if the car was headed out the drive, she was hopping in, eager to see where the road might lead. Whether it was a quick errand, a road trip, or an unexpected detour, Judy loved being on the go, sharing the ride and the laughter along the way. But more than anything, Judy loved her family.

She was the proud mother of three children, Jimmy (Robin) Arbogast, Clint (Ann) Arbogast, and Lisa (Lynn) Grant. Her heart swelled with pride for her two grandsons, Eric (Savannah) Grant and Colton (Haley) Grant, and her two great-granddaughters, Marygrace (the ball player) and Andiefaith (the princess), who brought her endless joy and laughter.

Judy cherished the deep bonds she shared with her brothers, Gary (Marilyn) Lewis and Billy (Dixie) Lewis, her sisters, Penny Wilcox and Virginia (Tony) Scheuer, and all her nieces and nephews throughout her life. She always looked forward to special cousin get-togethers, treasuring the moments of connection, laughter, and shared memories. Her sisters and lifelong friends, Sharon (Gary) Warren and Maridee Schoenfeld, held a special place in her heart, not only as family but as her dearest companions, her trusted confidants, and her greatest sources of laughter, comfort, and strength through every season of life.

Judy's nurturing spirit reached far and wide. She shared a special relationship with Sherry (Brad) Wheeler and Jake (Holly) Adams and their children, welcoming them into her family and becoming a cherished part of theirs. The love they shared was genuine and lasting, a beautiful reflection of Judy's gift for making family wherever she went.

Judy was happiest at parties and family gatherings, big, loud, full of love, and always centered around food that meant family. The famous Lewis potato salad, her unforgettable Texas sheet cake (that somehow never tasted quite the same when anyone else made it), and her classic kidney bean salad were staples at every get-together. For Judy, these dishes weren't just recipes, they were traditions, reminders of love, togetherness, and home.

Those who knew Judy will remember her warmth, humor, loyalty, and selflessness. She had a way of making everyone feel seen, valued, and loved. Her legacy lives on through her family and the countless lives she touched with her compassion, honesty, and heart.