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Karen Castle Stackpole, a beloved wife, mother, and friend, passed away in her home at the age of 75 in The Villages, Florida, surrounded by family.
Born on December 6, 1949 in Blowing Rock, North Carolina, Karen grew up with a strong sense of family. She was a graduate of Cox High School in Virginia Beach. In 1970, while working at The Virginian-Pilot newspaper in Norfolk, Virginia, she met John, who later became her husband of 52 years. During their marriage they welcomed two children-Jeff in 1974 and Tracy in 1977-who became the center of her world.
Karen dedicated over 40 years of her life to Brock & Beasley, CPA. She was known for her professionalism, hard work and especially the personal relationships she had with her co-workers and clients.
In 2014, she and John moved to The Villages, Florida, embracing retirement with enthusiasm. An avid golfer and billiards player, Karen found joy in friendly competition. She loved social gatherings and playing cards with her close friends, always bringing laughter and lightheartedness to every occasion. She especially enjoyed the company of her beloved cat, AJ.
Karen had a sharp wit, infectious laugh, and a positive spirit. She embraced life fully and found joy in the simplest moments. She will be deeply missed by all who knew her, but her legacy of love and laughter will live on in those she touched.
Karen is survived by her loving husband, John R. Stackpole Jr.; son, Jeff Stackpole; daughter, Tracy Capewell (Mike); beautiful grandchildren Emily, Lindsay and Owen Capewell; brother, David William Castle; cousin, Sandy Stalls. She was preceded in death by her parents, Ray William Castle; Helen Wooten Castle; aunt Polly Martin; uncle Jay Castle; aunt Lucy Castle; cousins Donna Ewing and Cathy Castle.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to The American Cancer Society or a charity of choice to reflect Karen's generous spirit and love for others.
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Nancy @ Mike Vlasaty
June 25, 2025
Karen will be missed for her brightness in the midst of adversity. She was always there supporting me, while she was going through so much. Our condolences on the passing of such a beautiful person! She will be remembered. Photo is John & Karen´s anniversary 2024. Memories....
Nancy & Mike Vlasaty
June 25, 2025
Dave and Bonnie Bowmer
June 19, 2025
Dear John and your family,
Dave and I want to say how deeply sad we feel about losing Karen. We so enjoyed our common love of billiards whenever we played you both on Sunday nights. Karen and I would laugh and joke about how we needed our hubby´s help. She was so easy to love and such a caring and thoughtful lady. We will miss her very much. Sending you and yours love and hugs.
Dave and Bonnie Bowmer
Diana & Woody Thomas
June 2, 2025
Sending love and prayers to John, Jeff, Tracy and family. We met under difficult circumstances. I will always be grateful for meeting you when I needed you most. The love you and John shared was special, and Jeff and Tracy are beyond amazing. This speaks volumes about your character. You shared your love and laughter with so many people....you will definitely be missed. Save me a seat in Heaven.
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Chris Goodwin
May 31, 2025
Tracy, Jeff, John, David... my thoughts and prayers are with you guys in this time of loss. For a long time i could stand beside Karen and call her mom. She was a beautiful, bright loving soul. When i was able to see her on her visits back to VA it was so much of a pleasure to sit down and talk with her. The Stackpole family will always feel like family and my heart will always be with every one of you. Karen´s spirit will always live on and watch over her children, husband, friends and beautiful grand children, i believe she would have it no other way. Love and Peace Momma Stackpole!!
Alina and Aaron
May 30, 2025
We still cannot process that this wonderful woman, who had so much life in her, who brightened even the darkest days of everyone around her is no longer shining her beautiful light into the world. We will forever miss her and we will always cherish all the memories with her, touring the deserts of Utah, watching dancers in The Villages, going to judge a beer competition in Ohio. Rest in peace, beautiful soul!
We are heartbroken for John and the entire family and wish you all peace and strength. Love, Aaron and Alina
Arlene Pericak
May 30, 2025
John,
So sorry for your loss. I will never forget the summer Karen cared for the feral cats in our backyard. Her good nature and love of cats was evident.
Sincere condolences to you and your family,
Arlene and Bill Pericak
Stephanie Jimenez
May 30, 2025
I´m praying for peace and strength for you and your family. May your Moms memory be forever happy.
Patty Capewell
May 30, 2025
My heart goes out to you Tracy and your family. Your mom will surely be missed. I have enjoyed our time we have had together. Both as a friend and as a member of the family.
Kathy Andress
May 29, 2025
Karen was the kind of friend I loved spending time with. She was always smiling, laughing and ready for a fun get together. We created wonderful memories shopping, playing pool and card games. I will miss Karen always! Kathy Andress
Rannah
May 29, 2025
Miss you so much! Love you always.
Rannah
Mike & Fran Grooms
May 28, 2025
We met John and Karen not too long after they moved to The Villages. What a delight it was knowing them. The times we had visiting, playing pool, playing cards, etc., are memories we will never forget. Karen was fun, always had a smile, and always complimented her friends. She was a great hostess, great cook, and always had plenty to eat and drink. We were so sorry to hear the news of her sickness. We wish that we could have spent more time with Karen and enjoyed more of the good times. Thanks for being our friend. RSP Karen, and we know you are taking your smiles to others.
Susan Fincke
May 28, 2025
John, Jeff and Tracy,
Carl and I have such wonderful memories of Karen. She was a kind and generous person who welcomed us and so many others into her home for a good meal and a good time. Sitting on the beach or on a blanket at the Virginia Beach amphitheater, Karen´s laugh could be heard above everything else (usually at John´s expense). She, Donna Ewing, and Cathy Castle represent the best of what it means to be family and certainly the standard for Southern hospitality. RIP Karen
Susan & Carl Fincke
Barbara Vickers
May 28, 2025
So sorry to hear. Sending love, prayers and hugs.
Rose & Fred Caprio
May 28, 2025
Condolences to the family, she will be missed.
Fred & Rose Caprio
Jody Grenert
May 28, 2025
I'm so thankful to have had the opportunity to get to know Karen and spend some priceless moments with her and John over the years. She would laugh to hear me say this, but we had so much more in common than either of us would ever admit: Our Southern roots, a love of muscle cars, dark Belgian brews and '70s tunes-just to scratch the surface. She was one of the most gracious hosts I've ever known, and I'll dearly miss our lively dinner conversations. Rest in peace, Karen. And thanks for all the memories.
Walt Zarnoch
May 28, 2025
Karen's beautiful soul and infectious smile will be missed. She added joy to one's life. I'm glad she was in mine.
Rich and Nancy
May 28, 2025
We met Karen 7 years ago when we moved to The Villages. Karen loved pool and we played once a week every Tuesday night. Karen was always enthusiastic about pool, cooking and get togethers. Karen made a delicious shrimp and grits. We were fortunate to have her in our lives. Karen, our friend you leave good memories and you will be missed.
Rich and Nancy
Christina
May 27, 2025
Momma Stack, thank you for always being there. I will miss you and your thoughtfulness, kind heart, sense of humor and most of all being my 2nd momma for over 4 decades. I love you and I hope you´ve reconnected with your parents, Polly, Donna and Cathy up there!
Jean and Warren Light
May 27, 2025
What a blessing to be your friend. RIP Karen. Condolences to John and your family. Jean and Warren Light
Jonathan And Bette Bonomo
May 27, 2025
Dear John, Bette and I are sorry for the loss of your dear wife. We are praying for the Lords comfort for you and your family.
Barbara Hunter
May 27, 2025
Karen, my confidante,we shared so many stories about similarities between our husbands and kids. I will miss our talks along with shared laughter. Your warm loving ways drew me into our friendship. I only wish I had known you longer. Rest in peace, my friend.
Donald G Hunter
May 27, 2025
At the world championship 14.1 pool tournament. Karen was a wonderful lady, that I feel fortunate to have had as a friend. We will miss your uplifting spirit, and the laughs we shared. RIP
Ginger Eng
May 27, 2025
Karen was such a delight to know. I first met her when she was just beginning to play pool and she joined my ladies league. She learned very quickly and all the gals loved her - easy to play with. I will miss her smile when ever I saw her.
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