Mr. Kevin Durante Commander

Mr. Kevin Durante Commander obituary, High Point, NC

Mr. Kevin Durante Commander

Kevin Commander Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Phillips Funeral Service Inc. - High Point from Jan. 21 to Jan. 29, 2026.
Mr. Kevin Durante "Chill" Commander, 59, gained his wings on Friday, January 16, 2026, at Wake Forest Baptist Medical Center. He was born on December 30, 1966, in High Point, NC, to the late Clifton Commander, Jr., and Maggie Lee Commander. In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his brother, Timothy Commander.

Kevin's former employers were Duke Energy and John Deere.

He was the limelight of the party. He loved having fun, singing, music, eating seafood, taking pictures, playing chess and darts, and most of all, he loved his family.

Kevin leaves to cherish his three sons, Christopher Little of Charlotte, NC, Chad Commander and Pierre Ezekiel both of High Point, NC; one daughter, Mykayia Commander of Chicago, Il; nine grandchildren; three sister; Cynthia Commander, Theresa Commander, and Margret Hope all of High Point, NC; two brothers, Gregory Commander and Christian Harris both of High Point, NC; a very special friend, Paula Evans; and a host of aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

Funeral service will be held Saturday, January 31, 2026 at 1:00 p.m. at New Bethel Baptist Church. Interment will follow at Guil-Rand Memorial Park. The family will receive friends at the church from 12:00 p.m. until 1:00 p.m.

Final arrangements are entrusted to Phillips Funeral Service, Inc.

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January 31, 2026

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Maria Ross

February 3, 2026

May God give the entire family the love, comfort, strength as well as courage that only he can give through this difficult times and thereafter. As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. Continuous prayers and condolences for the family love you all forever. Rest peacefully in the spiritual/Heavenly realms bro Kevin. Gone but never forgotten. # ForeverInOurHearts.

Monique minter

January 31, 2026

Im going to miss my Country friend...never lost touch from 1989 to jan 16 2026( our last conversation)..Love your Brooklyn Sister 4eva Monique

Julius Williams

January 31, 2026

Peace.

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Arnessa Smith

January 26, 2026

My condolences to family and friends. Praying for you all.

sandra McLean

January 23, 2026

I´m so sorry for your lost ,may god wrap his arms around your whole family and give yall strength at this hard time TGBTG Amen

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