Mrs. Kira Bemis Stokes

Mrs. Kira Bemis Stokes obituary, Columbia, SC

Mrs. Kira Bemis Stokes

Kira Stokes Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Shives Funeral Home - Trenholm Road Chapel on Jul. 30, 2022.

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Kira Bemis Stokes, 38, of Columbia, went to be with the Lord on Friday, July 29, 2022. She was born in Columbia, SC, on July 3, 1984.
Kira was a beautiful soul who was loved by all that knew her. She graduated from Chapin High School, where she excelled in track and field and cross country. She went on to graduate with Honors in Nursing at University of South Carolina. She loved her career as a nurse but left to selflessly raise and homeschool her three children. She taught herself to be a master crocheter and gifted many with her beautiful creations. The blankets and hats she made brought comfort to many family members and friends. She spent many hours in the garden and had a tremendous ability to fill an empty place with beautiful plants and flowers. Her love for the Lord radiated through her in all that she did. She was a wonderful friend who focused on graciously walking and talking with friends. Throughout her two-and-a-half-year battle with Melanoma, Kira fought with the strength of Christ and mirrored the image of His grace, while never complaining. All the while blessing her friends and family in every way possible. She was always focused on the next step towards recovery and she suffered well, as Christ did, looking to Him for courage, strength and peace.
Survivors include her mother, Johnnie Wessinger Bemis, husband, Herbert Lucas Stokes, III (Luke); children, Herbert Lucas Stokes IV (Lucas), Elizabeth Collins Stokes (Collins), Mattie Dillan Thomas Stokes (Dillie); siblings, Temple Bemis (Brian) and Andrew Bemis (Elizabeth); and nieces and nephews Lawson, Cooper, Cayden, Margaret Ryan, Douglas, Tucker and Miller.
She was preceded in death by her father, Paul Richard Bemis.
The funeral service for Kira will be held at 2 o'clock, on Tuesday, August 2nd, at First Presbyterian Church, 1324 Marion Street, Columbia, with the Rev. Dr. Derek W. H. Thomas and the Rev. Bryan Bult officiating. A private burial will follow. The family will receive friends from 6 until 8 o'clock, Monday evening in Jackson Hall of First Presbyterian Church. Shives Funeral Home, Trenholm Road Chapel, is assisting the family. The family will be celebrating Kira's life with more colorful attire and welcome guests to do the same if they wish.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Stokes Family Scholarship at Ben Lippen https://www.benlippen.com/giving/stokes-family-scholarship/.

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Gabbie Hayes

August 2, 2022

Temple and family, I am sorry to hear of your loss. I only got to see Kira a few times, but I knew she was a wonderful, caring, and loving person. My prayers will continue for you and your family.

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