Kristen Leigh Sottile Graf

Kristen Leigh Sottile Graf obituary, James Island, SC

Kristen Leigh Sottile Graf

Kristen Leigh Sottile Graf Obituary

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Kristen Leigh Sottile Graf, 40, of James Island, South Carolina, wife of Paul Ernest Graf, passed away Sunday, March 26, 2017. Her Funeral Service will be held Saturday, April 1, 2017 in J. HENRY STUHR, INC., MOUNT PLEASANT CHAPEL, 1494 Mathis Ferry Road at 2:00 pm. Inurnment will follow in Mount Pleasant Memorial Gardens, 1308 Mathis Ferry Road. The family will receive friends in the Mount Pleasant Chapel on Thursday, March 30, 2017 from 6:00 until 8:00 pm. Kristen was born July 24, 1976 in Charleston, South Carolina, daughter of John Anthony Sottile, III and Debra Baird Sottile. She graduated Middleton High School in 1994 and attended Trident Technical College. She worked in the Food & Beverage industry throughout Charleston. Kristen had a vivacious personality and lived life to the fullest. She had a heart of gold and a passion for all animals especially her fur babies. Kristen was loving and kind and never met a stranger. She will be deeply missed by all who knew her. She is survived by her husband, Paul Ernest Graf of James Island, SC; her father, John Sottile, III (Terry) of Goose Creek; mother, Debbie Sottile (Michael Dixon) of Charleston, SC; three sisters, Mary Sottile Graham (Michael) of Goldsboro, NC, Beth Sottile Martin (Chris) of Greenville, NC, Carrie Sottile Smart (Michael) of Moncks Corner, SC; brother, John Anthony Sottile, IV of Goose Creek, SC; maternal grandparents, Will and Frances Baird of Manning, SC and nine nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by sister, Rachel Sottile and paternal grandparents, John Anthony Sottile and Eleanor Sottile.

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April 1, 2017

Lynn Skorek posted to the memorial.

April 1, 2017

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April 1, 2017

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Lynn Skorek

April 1, 2017

My deepest sympathy to the family. Prayers are with you at this time. Love, LynnRTNcC

Jim Wheeler

April 1, 2017

I didn't know Kristen we are friends of her sister Beth and her brother in law Chris for 20 years. I am so sorry for the families loss, may God wrap his arms around all off you, and comfort you in this most difficult time.

Jim and Lisa Wheeler

William Greene

April 1, 2017

Kirsten the world will not be as bright without you. I love you and will miss you.

Brandy Henry

March 31, 2017

I met Kristen almost 20 yrs ago...loved her larger than life personality..she had some ups & downs along the way... The past 5 yrs or so I've never seen her happier. She lite up every room she walked in. Loved seeing her & Paul in all those great pics. Gone way to soon baby girl! You will always be in my thoughts & prayers for Paul & family. RIP sweet baby girl

Debbie Jackson

March 31, 2017

My deepest sympathies Paul, and family. Kristen was an angel here on earth and she will be missed. Thoughts and prayers for you all.

Claire Eadon

March 31, 2017

Although I did not know Kristen, I know Debbie and Mike---two of the finest master gardeners in SC. I am deeply saddened by your loss and want you to know your many friends and acquaintances are thinking of you and sending you love and support. Love, Claire Eadon

Dale & Lynda Murray

March 31, 2017

Paul - you and all the family are in our hearts & prayers, so sorry to hear this! Kristen will be missed dearly.

Jessica Jantzi

March 31, 2017

Kristen trained me at the Mustard Seed. I always looked forward to working with her. She had such a kind and friendly spirit. Always laughing and smiling, she really made it easy to push through the work day. She will be missed and remembered. I'm incredibly sorry for your loss.

Darlene Moreno

March 31, 2017

Wow. The hurt of losing a beautiful person and long time friend. I can't begin to describe it. My heart is broken ..."Perhaps they are not stars, but rather, tiny openings from Heaven where our loved ones shine down letting us know they are happy." I love you Kristin. We had a lot of GREAT times together. You will be truly missed. God bless you and your family. Love and prayers, Darlene

Shaylan Thompson

March 31, 2017

I will never forget you, Kristen. Your strong work ethic rubbed off on me, because as long as I have known you, you were very hardworking. You trained me at my very first real job! Heaven has gained an Eternal Angel! Love you always!

Craig & Donna Dordick

March 30, 2017

We were saddened to hear of Kristen's passing. Our deepest condolences & prayers.

John Richburg

March 30, 2017

I meet Kristin about 10 years ago. She has the biggest heart and would help anybody that needs a helping hand. I'm still in shock over her loss. She will be missed by many people. Until we meet again ole friend may god bless you Kristin.

Jeff Frank

March 30, 2017

We send our deepest thoughts and prayers for the family. Kris will remain in our hearts forever and be missed by all. God bless as you move forward. We love you both dearly.

Love always,
Jeff and Karil

Janis Parks

March 30, 2017

Debbie, Mike and Family

You all are in my thoughts and prayers. I have known Debbie and Mike for over twenty years and had the pleasure of sharing Kristen and Paul's beautiful wedding day in October 2016. May God Bless you all.

Lane Arnold

March 30, 2017

So sad. I have known Kristen since her birth. She was truly a great person inside and out. John and Debbie I am very sorry for your loss.

Rene Woods

March 30, 2017

Kristen, we go back a long way and we had some great fun and tons of laughs together. I cant believe you are gone. Too soon. Your smile, personality and desire to live inspired us all. A real go-getter. Fly high baby girl. You will be missed. Love you! xoxo

Amnette Giannotti

March 29, 2017

God bless Kristen's family and her husband . God be with you through this time now and always. I am so sorry for your loss.Kristen was a wonderful person, Beautiful soul ,had so much to offer the world. Kristen has made a difference in many lives. She's just she was just a wonderful Beautiful person.God bless you all. Kristen's hairdresser Annette

Annette Giannotti

March 29, 2017

I thought the world of Kristen. I was always so very proud of her, always admired her strength . She was always a spectacular lady. Making me laugh. I will miss our talks and us cutting up . I will miss doing her hair and how she used to play with my dog Jam. He loved her. Aunt Kristen will be so very missed my long time friend of 22 years or more. We always picked right back up where we left off it didn't matter how long we were not in touch ! God bless you Kristin . I am so sorry this has happened to you dear . You are a beautiful soul such an upbeat spirit about you. You were so positive. Thank you again for all the talks . Now you rest my dear friend. I love you. Your hairdresser Annette.

Charles Grooms

March 29, 2017

To the Sottile family,words cannot even begin to express my sorrow when I heard about your loss. Although it is difficult today to see beyond your sorrow. May looking back at all the wonderful memories and good times will bring comfort in the days to come. Understand that God knows the way you feel He knows the loss you face, so rest in His eternal love. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you.

Rebecca Lopez

March 29, 2017

Kristen became my friend five years ago through work. She was attractive, lively, and animated. I remember her loving to cruise and travel, go to the beach, smooch her dogs, meet friends after work, and help her family. We had a running lunch date every month and kept in touch when work took us separate ways. Myself and my children remember Kristen and love her.

Lynn Skorek

March 29, 2017

Kristen...... A spit fire ...... an Angel. Full of many Emotions. A sweet spirit and a strong spirit. You were loved by so many; and you touched so very many lives.
While Family, Friends, Loved Ones grieve over your sudden departure...we remember you lived many lives in such a short time. You had to leave us early ... you were in a hurry to get to Paradise. You are not alone there and you are most definitely making other spirits laugh and rejoice with you.

Thank you for the memories, the laughs...... You shall remain always in our hearts.
Rest Peacefully in HIS arms dear girl.

Love, Miss Lynn

Sonya (Hemperley) Johnson

March 28, 2017

Kristen was ALWAYS smiling and had a "heart of gold"!!! She was selfless and ALWAYS put herself last. I know she has a spot with Heavenly Father in Heaven!!! She will be greatly missed by many!!!

Leslie Keefe (Roper)

March 28, 2017

Kristen was an amazing person! I can't find the words to express how sorry I am that this happened. I loved her deeply. She will be greatly missed.

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