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Lydia McCarroll Obituary

MCCARROLL (Jackson),

Lydia Marie

Lydia Marie Jackson McCarroll, 80, of Atlanta, GA, passed away on September 17, 2025. Born on May 31, 1945, in St. Louis, MO, Lydia attended Villa Duchesne and Maryville College in St. Louis, where she met her adoring husband of 58 years, Patrick McCarroll.

Never one to sit still, Lydia embraced a variety of roles throughout her life, including working in retail, volunteering at the Atlanta Botanical Gardens, teaching preschool, gardening, and—most of all—dotting on her grandchildren.

Lydia is survived by her husband, Patrick; and their three children: Billy McCarroll (Jessica), Kathy Olmstead (George), and Jennifer Dana (Deemer). She also leaves behind her beloved grandchildren: Nate Olmstead, Jackson Dana, Rowe McCarroll, and Berkeley Dana; her sister, Kathy Finn (Reed); her brother, Bob Jackson; and many nieces and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Rosemary and Bill Jackson; her brother, Richard Jackson and his wife, Linda; and her grandson, Lowell Olmstead.

Lydia was known for her hearty laugh, strong opinions, fierce independence, and unwavering convictions. Her life was not always easy, and her relationships were sometimes challenging, but she shaped those around her in lasting and meaningful ways.

A memorial service will be held on Friday, October 3, 1:00 PM at H.M. Patterson & Son Arlington Chapel, 173 Allen Rd. NE, Sandy Springs, GA 30328. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Wounded Warrior Project, the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI), or a charity of your choice.

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Sep. 23, 2025.

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Kj

October 1, 2025

Hello. This is a continuation of a previous entry. Lydia's passing has effected me more than I realized and cannot effectively explain. We were pals for a brief and intense time Sophmore year. They were several weekends and always w/ guys probably from Chicago. One at her home with her warm welcoming parents, casual folks, good food, coffee, and Lydia talking non-stop. Another at the home of a former classmate then married, PB&J sandwiches w/ tomato soup, maybe a steak cooked by someone certainly not me, and Lydia talking non-stop. Lydia enriched my life at that fragile time in my life and for that I'm grateful. But as life happened, even as college juniors, we each moved on to the next phase. Wishing you light and blessing, Lydia. ~ Kj Rink, Maryville College, Class of 1967

Rainey

September 27, 2025

Lydia and I began our friendship at Home Depot when I commented on her "adorable hat!" She was one of the most generous people I have ever met. I still get compliments every time I wear the pink rain jacket and purple overalls she gifted me. She was fierce in loyalty and loved her family, German Shepherds, flowers, dark chocolate, cough drops, and America. I will miss her sassy spirit, and even now I smile when I remember how cute she looked in her garden apron and rain boots!

Kj Rink

September 23, 2025

~ Maryville College, St. Louis, Class of 1967

Beverly LeBoeuf

September 23, 2025

So sad to learn of Lydia's passing. We were at Villa together...long time ago. Did truly enjoy seeing her at reunions. She was a true treasure.

Deepest sympathy,

Beverly Brice LeBoeuf

Theresa Nangle Obermeyer

September 23, 2025

Pat, McCarroll Family, Kathy, and Family:
We are so sad to find out the Lydia has passed away. What a wonderful woman and dear friend she was. Lydia was a treasure and always full of energy. I knew Lydia closely at Villa and Maryville. We loved her dearly. A light has gone off for all of us who knew Lydia. We are sure she is in heaven with the angels. We are praying for your family during this very difficult time. We will mail a Mass card for the repose of Lydia's soul.
Since condelences,
Tom and Theresa Nangle Obermeyer
Thomas and Nicole Teddy Rhett Grace
Jimmy and Monica Owen Mia
Margaret and Benn Laurel Mabel
Matt and Jessica Dawson Luciana

Tracy Jackson Wright

September 21, 2025

Sending love and prayer filled thoughts to Uncle Pat, Billy, Kathy, Jennifer and your families.
-Tracy

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