Marci Perri

Marci Perri obituary, Oceanport, NJ

Marci Perri

Marci Perri Obituary

Visit the John E. Day Funeral Home - Red Bank website to view the full obituary.
Marci Lynne Perri, 59, of Oceanport, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on February 24,

2026, at Riverview Medical Center in Red Bank NJ, following a courageous battle with

cancer.

Marci was born on November 14, 1966, in Framingham, Massachusetts, to David and Janet

Goldman. During middle school, she moved to Middletown, New Jersey, where she later

graduated from Middletown South High School. She attended Northeastern University,

majoring in political science, before transferring to Ramapo College where she graduated

Cum Laude in 1989.

Marci's professional journey began in an unexpected, yet fitting way. While working at a

local restaurant, she met Doran O'Conner of APL (American President Lines), who

recognized her charisma and drive and encouraged her to pursue a career in business. That

moment changed the course of her career. She began at APL and later joined NYK Line as a

marketing analyst, quickly proving herself and earning a promotion into sales. A role

perfectly suited to her outgoing nature and determination. She spent over five years at NYK,

during which she welcomed her first daughter, Abigail. Marci later worked at Tropical

Shipping before ultimately retiring to focus full-time on what she valued most: her family

and community. No matter the role, Marci excelled because she genuinely loved people. Her

ability to build relationships wasn't learned, it was innate.

At just 16 years old, Marci met Albert James Perri Jr. They were high school sweethearts

whose love grew up alongside them. On December 1, 1991, they were married at Jumping

Brook Country Club in Neptune, New Jersey.

They bought their first home in Red Bank, where they began raising their two daughters.

Later, they moved to Oceanport, where they continued building their life together.

Marci lived a full and vibrant life, filling her days with the people and passions she loved

most. She found peace at the beach, joy in traveling to new places, and comfort in getting

lost in a good book. Some of her happiest moments were spent hiking the trails of Vermont

with her husband and their beloved dogs, embracing nature and the quiet beauty of the

mountains.

She was a fabulous cook who brought everyone together around the table. Meals in her

home were never just meals; they were gatherings filled with laughter, stories, and love. She

rarely missed a good concert, especially if the Grateful Dead was playing, and music was

often the soundtrack to her life. And of course, she loved to shop - always with an eye for

style and finding the perfect piece.

Raised Jewish, Marci also found comfort attending Mass at St. James Church. Her faith

journey reflected her open heart; embracing tradition while welcoming connection and

community wherever she found it.

Marci was truly a force of nature - vibrant, dynamic, and impossible to contain. She was

always on the move, rarely content to sit still, embracing life with boundless energy and

determination. There was little she could not accomplish once she set her mind to it; her

drive and resolve carried her through every challenge, leaving an indelible mark on all who

witnessed her strength.

Marci was a true collector of friends, fiercely loyal and boundlessly devoted to those she

loved. She shone like the sun, drawing people into her warmth and light, with friends

always orbiting around her. From cherished childhood companions to new faces she

welcomed with open arms, her circle was ever-growing. Marci was a friend to all and a

stranger to none, possessing the rare gift of making every person she met feel uniquely

valued and deeply special in her world.

Marci lived for her girls, Abigail and Ally James, who were the very center of her world.

Above all else, she was most proud of them, celebrating every milestone and cherishing

every moment. She found her greatest joy in watching them grow and flourish into the

remarkable, accomplished women they are today, carrying forward her strength, love, and

light.

Second only to her devotion to her family was Marci's deep commitment to charity. She first

poured her energy into supporting her daughters' schools, and later expanded her efforts to

serve the broader community. Among the organizations closest to her heart were Soul

Kitchen, Mercy Center, and Sisters Academy. Marci worked tirelessly, collecting donations

almost daily, volunteering in the soup kitchen, and helping provide healthy meals to

neighbors in need. The role she treasured most was mentoring the girls at Sisters Academy

- whether serving as a substitute teacher, coaching lacrosse, lending a hand in the library,

or simply brightening the day with surprise snacks and crafts. In recognition of her

extraordinary dedication and impact, she was honored with a Distinguished Volunteer

Award, a testament to the countless lives she uplifted through her generosity and service.

Her generosity touched countless lives in her community. Marci gave freely of her time,

energy, and resources - not for recognition, but from a genuine desire to make a

meaningful difference in someone else's life.

Above all, Marci was a devoted wife, mother, daughter, sister, and friend.

She was predeceased by her father, David Goldman.

She is survived by her loving husband, Albert James Perri Jr.; her daughters, Abigail Jayne

Perri and Ally James Perri; her cherished dogs, Remington and Henry; her mother Janet

Goldman; and her sisters, Jodi Murphy and Caryn Goldman.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks that donation be made to the Mercy Center in

Marci's honor.

The Perri Family extends heartfelt gratitude to the countless friends and loved ones whose

support, prayers, and kindness have carried them through this time.

Marci's light, laughter, and love will continue to shine in all who were fortunate enough to

know her.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

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