Mark Detering Obituary
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He is preceded in death by his parents, Warren and Billie (nee Beinker) Detering and his brother, David (Jackee) Detering.
He is survived by his wife, Rita Detering; his children, Emily Grace (Alan) Detering and Tess (Adam) Sherman; his grandchildren, Ezra Carl Detering-Janssen and Billie Sherman; his brother, Paul (Karen) Detering; along with numerous other extended family and friends.
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Mark, a loving husband, devoted father, doting grandfather, and beloved brother. Mark left this world surrounded by the love of his family, which meant everything to him. He cherished every moment spent with his family, especially his grandchildren, who brought him immense joy and pride.
Known for his insatiable curiosity and thirst for knowledge, Mark was affectionately dubbed "Encyclopedia Brown" by his family and friends, as he could illuminate any topic with his vast understanding.
A passionate musician and singer, Mark had a deep love for music that resonated throughout his life. He met the love of his life, Rita, while performing at a venue in New York City. From the moment he saw her in the front row of his concert, he knew she was the one he would marry. Their love story flourished for 44 beautiful years, filled with laughter, harmony, and countless cherished memories.
Mark often shared his favorite saying, "Blessed are the peacemakers," which reflected his gentle spirit and desire to spread kindness wherever he went. His legacy of love, knowledge, and music will forever remain in the hearts of those who knew him.
Mark will be fondly remembered and dearly missed, but never forgotten by all who knew and loved him. Family and friends can review and share stories, photos and condolences online at www.stlfuneral.com and follow details of this event and others in the community at www.facebook.com/stlchapelhill.
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Jacqueline Stack
January 17, 2025
Mark was a frequent visitor/customer at the Miriam Switching Post where I volunteer. As another commenter said he was a walking encyclopedia. Our last conversation in early November was about Japanese wood block prints . He had a thorough knowledge and more importantly, shared that knowledge with an open heart . His background in art and the art market was extensive.
I am sorry he left so soon. As difficult as his health was, he made the world better.
Lisa Marty
December 30, 2024
I first met Mark at a middle school softball game circa 1969 when we were both eleven years old. We were adjacent infielders-he played shortstop and I was on third base-and we laughed and talked between plays. Even then I was struck by how extraordinary he was. Does anyone remember that Mark was something of a prodigy on the French horn? While still in middle school, he was drafted to play with the high school band. I haven't seen Mark since the 80s, but was so sorry to hear of his passing. Condolences to his family for this terrible loss.
Bill Safron
December 15, 2024
I´ve known Mark since we were in our late teens. He was always a great friend to me, an extraordinary person, and without a doubt the best singer I´ve ever known. It was an honor and a privilege to have known him, and to be associated with him in many bands and musical projects through the years. His intellect, wisdom, talent and unique view of life, is how I will always remember him, and I will never forget the music, conversations, and good times we shared. Those memories will live on as well as the positive impact he had on all who knew him. I´ll miss my friend.
stephen Stelmachowicz
December 10, 2024
Mark and I grew up together and from a very young age shared the love of music and spent, countless hours, days, months and years enjoying our sessions and friendship. Mark had a special talent and wonderful family and will be missed dearly. May he always reside in that special place with god!!!!!
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