Mary Dee Boemker

Mary Dee Boemker obituary, Shelbyville, KY

Mary Dee Boemker

Mary Boemker Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Ratterman Southwest Funeral Home on Feb. 2, 2026.
Mary Dee Boemker, 67, passed away Friday, January 30, 2026, at Shelbyville Hospital in Shelbyville, KY.

She was a member of Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Frankfort, KY, and a proud graduate of St. Lawrence grade school (Louisville), Western High School (Louisville), and Western Kentucky University, where she earned two Masters Degrees.

Mary Dee was a retired Medicaid Specialist for the State of Kentucky. She was a Special Olympics Kentucky volunteer, Frankfort Civitan member, and Elks Lodge member.

She was preceded in death by her parents, James and Martha Bibelhauser Boemker, and her brother-in-law, Raymond Vanover II.

Left to cherish her memories are her siblings, Joan Corrigan (Brian), Phyllis Vanover, Susan Caschera (Tim), Mike Boemker (Aprill), and Donnie Boemker; nieces and nephews, Stephen Peery (Kourtney), Rachael Johnston (Shane), Maureen Corrigan (Ryane), Carly George (Cody), Danielle Boemker, and Evan Boemker; great nieces and nephews, Everly, Emilia, Parker, Barrett, and Patton; and her many friends and family.

Her Memorial Service will be 11 A.M. Saturday, February 7, 2026, at Ratterman Southwest 4832 Cane Run Rd. Memorial Visitation will be

3 P.M.to 8 P.M. Friday, February 6, 2026, and 9 A.M. until the time of service Saturday.

In lieu of flowers, expressions of sympathy may be made to Special Olympics Kentucky, 105 Lakeview Ct., Frankfort, KY 40601 or Civitan, c/o Renee Moss, 504 Collings Landing, Frankfort, KY 40601.

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Kristen Lee

February 6, 2026

Mary Dee was the sweetest person who never had an unkind word to say and was always positive. She will be missed by MANY!! May we all be more like Mary Dee!!

Erin B

February 5, 2026

Mary Dee was the kindest soul; the entire Department of Medicaid felt this loss. Always with a smile.

Evan Boemker

February 3, 2026

Mary Dee was such a kind and amazing person. I have so many great memories. She will be deeply missed.

Jon Borie

February 3, 2026

I volunteered with the Special Olympics as well. Mary Dee was a tireless worker and a good person.
Peace

Cheryl Turner Dowell

February 3, 2026

To a rose of Gamma Sigma Sigma. Love from all your sisters....

Laura Malena

February 2, 2026

Mary Dee belonged to many groups at Good Shepherd Catholic in Frankfort, and I was blessed to know her from blue Army, Singing Praises, and Choir. She was strong in her Faith, and trusted Our Lord. Although she suffered much, she was always positive and helped others. Mary Dee was very independent and determined to do for herself. She encouraged so many of us by her cheerful attitude, sweet smile, sense of humor, and beautiful angelic voice! . My sincere condolences to all the family, may you all be comforted.

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